GUYS - my lil brother is having a problem

[luv2workout]

keeping his dick hard.....

He is 20...almost everytime he goes to stick it in it gets soft....this has been happening to him since he was 15....It has worked 4 times....it is driving him crazy and I dont know what to tell him to do...should he see a dr.? is it just mental??? would viagra be an option??? Anyone ever experienced this?

 

[luv2workout]

Thanks Kronk!! I knew YOU didnt have that problem...

I thought the same thing....he is missing out

no A/S.....the reason I thought it might be just mental is b/c we were raised in a freaky christian "no sex till marriage" home (can u believe??? hahaha) he doesnt have a problem when he is alone (although then he says he doesnt get a full HARD!)

 

[AziaReign]

Its more likely a mental thing. He won't get mad, but seriously, ask Pauly about our situation the first couple of months we were dating.

 

[Big Buck]

More than likely it's mental. Does he drink often? If I drink ALOT, my soldier has problems standing at attenion...LOL

 

[Golfer18--old]

Luvs

I feel sorry for your bro. I think its mental too. Get him some viagra. That will help if its mental or physical.

 

[luv2workout]

Thanks for the replies you guys....He needs to go to the dr. regardless...that way he knows thats its all in his head and he CAN change it or that there is a reason as to why its not working right....he doesnt drink all that much - thats not the problem, no drugs, etc.

Kronk said it right - this is time when his dick should ALWAYS be hard!!!

Golfer - you got an extras he can try??

 

[Golfer18--old]

Sorry luvs, i dont have any extra , i have problems with getting morning wood down.

 

[NY Muscle]

get him to a dr.

 

[bigguns7]

It's mental. Here's a story. I was raised the same kinda way, no sex until marriage and all that. Well when I got to college, let's just say I changed a little. Gettin hammered EVERY night, hooking up with different girls on a weekly basis, but still not having sex. Well one night, I just said screw it (no pun intended) and decided I was just going to have sex with this girl that I had in my dorm room. I had a raging hard-on, and I was eating her out. As I moved up her body to put it in, my dick literally got an inch shorter for every inch I moved toward her, until when I got there, I had nothing but a shadow of my former penis.

This was totally mental, but luckily I've worked through it now

 

[darren]

This is psychological. I had this happen when I was a virgin the first times I tried to have sex. First thing is he need to not plan (stress) on having sex on a particular night. Then, if the chick goes down on him it helps 100%. I can't reccommend this knowing what's out there, but I found it impossible to use a condom until after I'd successfully banged without one several times. It messes up the flow trying to put one on. It causes you to "know" you are having sex, without letting it happen naturally.