GUYS - my lil brother is having a problem

[luv2workout]

keeping his dick hard.....

He is 20...almost everytime he goes to stick it in it gets soft....this has been happening to him since he was 15....It has worked 4 times....it is driving him crazy and I dont know what to tell him to do...should he see a dr.? is it just mental??? would viagra be an option??? Anyone ever experienced this?

 

[luv2workout]

Thanks Kronk!! I knew YOU didnt have that problem...

I thought the same thing....he is missing out

no A/S.....the reason I thought it might be just mental is b/c we were raised in a freaky christian "no sex till marriage" home (can u believe??? hahaha) he doesnt have a problem when he is alone (although then he says he doesnt get a full HARD!)

 

[AziaReign]

Its more likely a mental thing. He won't get mad, but seriously, ask Pauly about our situation the first couple of months we were dating.

 

[Big Buck]

More than likely it's mental. Does he drink often? If I drink ALOT, my soldier has problems standing at attenion...LOL

 

[Golfer18--old]

Luvs

I feel sorry for your bro. I think its mental too. Get him some viagra. That will help if its mental or physical.

 

[luv2workout]

Thanks for the replies you guys....He needs to go to the dr. regardless...that way he knows thats its all in his head and he CAN change it or that there is a reason as to why its not working right....he doesnt drink all that much - thats not the problem, no drugs, etc.

Kronk said it right - this is time when his dick should ALWAYS be hard!!!

Golfer - you got an extras he can try??

 

[Golfer18--old]

Sorry luvs, i dont have any extra , i have problems with getting morning wood down.

 

[NY Muscle]

get him to a dr.

 

[bigguns7]

It's mental. Here's a story. I was raised the same kinda way, no sex until marriage and all that. Well when I got to college, let's just say I changed a little. Gettin hammered EVERY night, hooking up with different girls on a weekly basis, but still not having sex. Well one night, I just said screw it (no pun intended) and decided I was just going to have sex with this girl that I had in my dorm room. I had a raging hard-on, and I was eating her out. As I moved up her body to put it in, my dick literally got an inch shorter for every inch I moved toward her, until when I got there, I had nothing but a shadow of my former penis.

This was totally mental, but luckily I've worked through it now

 

[darren]

This is psychological. I had this happen when I was a virgin the first times I tried to have sex. First thing is he need to not plan (stress) on having sex on a particular night. Then, if the chick goes down on him it helps 100%. I can't reccommend this knowing what's out there, but I found it impossible to use a condom until after I'd successfully banged without one several times. It messes up the flow trying to put one on. It causes you to "know" you are having sex, without letting it happen naturally.

 

[The Dude]

This is psychological. I had this happen when I was a virgin the first times I tried to have sex. First thing is he need to not plan (stress) on having sex on a particular night. Then, if the chick goes down on him it helps 100%. I can't reccommend this knowing what's out there, but I found it impossible to use a condom until after I'd successfully banged without one several times. It messes up the flow trying to put one on. It causes you to "know" you are having sex, without letting it happen naturally.

That sounds like your own little psychological problem. It's also a bad idea to forgo a condom the first few times. It's too easy to find yourself with a kid or a disease. Those things usually don't just go away.

 

[Kahn]

Your idea of the doc first is the best. I'd lay money on it being in his head. Could work out to be a good thing when he gets in under control. Then he's gonna know its ALL in your head and he'll be a fuck God!! Go get'em Tiger!

 

[MrMuscle]

dang...your a good sis luvs..if i had a sister i doubt id ever discuss stuff like this with her..specially if she was a hotty like you.

 

[KAYNE]

FIRST, GET HIM TO A TATTOO PARLOR. TELL HIM TO GET A BIG "S" TATTED ON HIS CHEST IN RED AND BLUE INK. GO GET SOME VIAGRA. PREFERABLY 100MG BUT THE 50'S WILL DO JUST FINE. HE SHOULD RIP HIS SHIRT OFF EXPOSING THE "S" JUST LIKE CLARK KENT DOES JUST BEFORE HE BANGS WHATEVER CHICK HE WILL BE BANGING. WHATEVER CHICK IT IS WILL NEED KRYPTONITE TO GET HIM TO STOP!!!

SERIOUSLY THOUGH, TELL HIM TO GET SOME VIAGRA IF HE CAN. I GET IT FROM A PHARMACIST FRIEND AND A COUPLE DOCTOR FRIENDS. NOT THAT I NEED IT BUT IT IS FUN TO TAKE SOMETIMES.

KAYNE

 

[BuggyWhips]

Maybe he's gay and he's in denial.. Givehim some gay porn and ask him if it works then.

 

[bigwillster]

Viagra at his age???

I think the best thing he could do is go to the Doc ASAP. If he starts using Viagra he'll just like the results and keep using it even when his willy feels better. I guess in the meanwhile he can take small doses of viagra to help him out. God I know what he's going through. I was having the same experience about a week ago but it was do to AS. I went out and bought l-arginine, tribulus, horny goat weed, zinc, and clomid. I'm about 90% recovered now thanks to all the supplements. Do not have him go out and buy all these things. He needs to see a DOC soon. At his age his dick should be getting hard even by seeing tampon commercials. We wish him luck. Keep us posted.

 

[luv2workout]

dang...your a good sis luvs..if i had a sister i doubt id ever discuss stuff like this with her..specially if she was a hotty like you.

Awwww.....you so sweet....the reason why we discuss this type of stuff is b/c we (I) grew up in a house where my mother didnt discuss this at all b/c it was evil/sin or whatever... Im older and I feel like it helps to have someone that you can tell anything to and not feel embarrased, ashamed or whatever..that is what I longed for growing up as a teenager/young adult, but i never got it...so I figured thats the least I can do for him...and I luv him

Thanks everyone else....Im gonna tell him to read this!!! Im working on getting the viagra so he can get him some bootay ASAP

 

[Deepsquat]

Maybe he is GAY!?....And as for the anti depressant ....most of them kill the sex drive ....not a good idea ....unless you are depressed.