First time fucking- questions

[Robert Jan]

So after already regularly having both way oral sex for some months and both having become pretty good at pleasing each other and getting each other off using the mouth and hands, me and my gf first actually fucked the other night and again the other day.

We didn't do this at first because she wasn't on birth control yet.

Anyway while I had no crazy expectations in my eyes it was quite the letdown.

While I can keep very hard and good length and girth for longer periods of time on end when receiving blow- and handjobs, fucking seemed to turn my dick into a sloppy mess, almost unsuitable for proper thrusting.

Furthermore I orgasmed quite quickly and the orgasm lacked sensation to such a degree that It was only actual ejaculation that notified me I had nutted. I was tempted to pull out, grab my cock and smack it and taunt it for giving me this crap.

I also noticed that, unless your girl is 4 inches taller than you are, doggie style is almost mechanically impossible. How do you people do that?

I had her on top of me while lying on the bed first and she moved well, she gave me a good ride. It felt good but it also felt as if the pressure was pushing blood out of my penis and I was disappointed in the depth of the penetration.

Then I sat down on a chair and had her mount me while facing me. This was better but the beforementioned problems were unchanged. We almost had a consecutive orgasm but then she moved a bit too loosely and my penis went out of her vagina. Very frustrating.

Really the only really cool thing about this was how it stimulated us both at the same time. Other than that it was worthless compared to good oral.

We didn't use lube, or a condom which would have lube, but it got so wet it was dripping all the same so I don't think this was the problem.

I also had a problem with pube-burn since I had completely shaven my genital area and she had only trimmed above her vagina and so it rubbed quite hard and was all red and painful afterwards.

Can you give me an informed post without macho bragging but with valuable information of what I should know here? Is this how it is going to be?
Would lube help?

telling by this experience so far, fucking is lame compared to oral and handwork.

 

[SoKlueles]

It will get better

 

[Robert Jan]

What's gonna change then?

and what can I do to improve?

I'm hardly potency challenged I sport boners whether I want to or not all the time when I'm just around my gf.

 

[Gambino]

Damn Jan, that was a pretty meticulos discription of getting laid, lol...it will certainly get better, you will get more in tune with your bodies and your gal's likes. Oral is only a prelude to sex, which feels much better in my opinion...

 

[Robert Jan]

Damn Jan, that was a pretty meticulos discription of getting laid, lol...it will certainly get better, you will get more in tune with your bodies and your gal's likes. Oral is only a prelude to sex, which feels much better in my opinion...

I was meticulous because I hope to get some kind of advice here. I really don't care for you all knowing exactly how I got laid.

Many will disagree with you on oral vs fucking. I guess it depends on many things.

Anyway it better get better, because modern society has given me a sense of entitlement to unlimited mind blowing sex without consequences and I WILL think of somebody I can sue if I don't get it.

 

[RaZor Ramon]

I don't understand how anyone could have oral sex repeatedly without fucking.

 

[Robert Jan]

As I said, she was not on birth control yet.

Why would you not have oral without fucking? It's real good

she's a talent.

Never really missed it before. Now I want to learn.
So give me some goddamn advice instead of asking silly questions

 

[R33t]

Just relax, release your muscles, and enjoy the experience. Try not to take anything too seriously, because sex is suppose to be fun. Sometimes people get overly excited and a little nervous to a point where they don't enjoy their sex the way they should. Start off slow, have a little fun with different positions, and go from there. Some positions tend to be more sensitive for a man than others. From my experience having the girl on top is much easier, and I can last an extremely long period of time. On the other hand, if i'm on top going at it, thrusting in and out, then I have to control myself and develop endurance based on the mood and how fast we're going.

All I can say is, like oral, just fuck around and practice. Heck, even laugh about stuff if you're comfortable with each other. You'll definitely get a feel for her body, your body, and how sensitive you are to different positions. Eventually you'll be both be in control, you won't be asking who's doing what, if they're doing it right, and asking how they like it, or even getting told what to do. There's nothing like reaching climax at the same time.

Anyhow, good luck. Go have some fun and don't worry about the setbacks!

R33t

 

[Robert Jan]

I'm not emberassed or worried or whatnot really, after all we're not new to one anothers bodies.

I guess there's no real golden advice here and we'll learn automatically and that's that and maybe it'll just never be as good as hoped.

Anyway do you all get that thing that your penis is softer when fucking than it is when getting head?

 

[SoKlueles]

Dont be worried RJ ill be gentle on ya