Do you get along with your ex?

[kris639]

My ex was bi!!! so we'd hang out at lesbo clubs and pick up other girl's to bring home. It was fucking awesome ,, thank god i still have video footage to watch....... hee-hee-hee

 

[casavant]

My ex was bi!!! so we'd hang out at lesbo clubs and pick up other girl's to bring home. It was fucking awesome ,, thank god i still have video footage to watch....... hee-hee-hee

I won't date a bisexual girl. I don't see how there's any glamor in it if you really care about the girl.

 

[Mysterio]

I won't date a bisexual girl. I don't see how there's any glamor in it if you really care about the girl.

it seems like more are now adays though.

 

[slickdadd]

i really wonder if i'd just be happier alone sometimes

 

[Taps]

I don't really have any ex-girlfriends per se....but I'm on good terms with most of my former "somethingorothers"

There's one or two though.....damn....makes me wonder what the hell I was thinking. lol

 

[Pebcak]

I have 3 ex-girlfriends that I still talk with. Only 1 was serious (3 years), the other 2 were something else, (6-7) months. For the most part I think that we get along OK, except recently. I can now say that all 3 of them are mad at me, in one case my fault, in the others not.


The 2 short term relationships were obviously most recent and they just sort of fizzled out. Well I ran into one of the girls at a restaurant that my friend manages. We ended up sitting and talking for 4 hours. During the conversation she tells me that she wants to go out the next night, and I was cool with that. Well a little while later I accidentally call her the wrong name (the other short term girl). Man what a mistake, totally my fault. Needless to say we haven't talked in 2 weeks. Ooops.

The other short term girl is a complete basketcase. She has some real issues to deal with, and I'm always the person that she calls to talk about them. Well it's gotten a bit tedious since the phone calls always come at 2 AM. I could deal with it for a little while, but I finally just stopped answering the phone. I then went on vacation and came home to a message from her ranting how she hated me for never being there, etc, etc, etc. Haven't talked with her either.

Now the long term gal I hadn't talked to in quite a while. Few weeks ago she sent me an e-card that I never got around to responding to. After my vacation I ended up seeing her and she wouldn't even speak to me. That I didn't get. I mean she dating a guy that used to be one of my best friends. I drank my first beer with this guy. Why would she think that we're still that close? This is the one that confuses me the most,

So I guess I used to get along with my ex-girls, but now I can't say that I do, though I'm not too concerned either. Life goes on.

Pebcak

 

[PHATchik]

Phatchik, a friend can call anytime with any need and I will be there. An ex calling out of the blue just to shoot the shit while i'am with my girlfriend is disrectful. If they are in a severe emergency and have no one else on this earth to call sure i'll be there for them, they will always have a piece of my heart and I would never turn my back on any of them. But the ex needs to back off otherwise. Its only a unique situation where ex's remain friends. Otherwise its just questionable.

Now see, I will be there for an ex if they need me period. And if I can stay friends with them, then I want to. Especially if we were friends before we started dating. That's why I am trying so hard to deal with my issues that I have concerning my most recent relationship disaster. He and I can get along great. Until he starts bringing in his new love interests. I'm just not ready for that. Otherwise, he is what I still consider a friend.

 

[SDRaver]

my current ex-gf can't do it

She's being honest though. She just can't handle the fact of me being with another woman. She says that she can't be just friends with me.
However when I went through a major ordeal this last week she let me spend time whith her and her daughter who I adore. So she was able to set her feelings aside and help me when I needed it most. So eventhough she says that she can't be friends with me I know that she will be there for me in times of crisis.

 

[Lifter4Life]

Phatchik, The last sentence of your post is exactly why I do not remain friends with an ex. It's just a matter of time before one of you gets involved with another and for me i'd prefer not to know about it. It sux but so does life sometimes. It's hard to move on after loving someone, but everything happens for a reason. There is someone more suited for you out there and your lucky that you didn't end up w/that person because it obviously wasn't meant to be. I know its hard but staying tied to that situation is only going to hurt later. I respect a woman who doesn't have ex's calling and hanging on. I would feel disrespected if an ex called my girl, just doesn't sit well w/me. Good Luck.

 

[2 ton hoss]

GENETIKING
Is she so arrogant as to think I care what she thinks at this point? That's what pisses me off.

READ THIS THIS AGAIN, GENETIKING. KEEP RE-READING IT UNTIL YOU SEE THE IRONY.