Tops are much harder {no pun intended} to come by and good bottoms are always on the lookout for a big hard topman. Its not like I would be banished if I wanted to bottom, but there is more demand for a top; we are fewer in number than bottoms. With regard to the prostate, the natural swelling of the gland from taking steroids makes it want some attention; some rubbing or massaging, if you like, and having a dildo, finger and/or dic up there makes it all feel great!
It's not been uncommon to have a FB of mine want to party, and the next thing I know is, he's invited 2 or 3 other bottoms over; and I end up having to do most of the work....! great for a legs workout but come on, i'm not as young as I once was ....!