Cumming inside her(ladies please look)

[trinigodzilla]

I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 1/2 yrs and she still will not let me do this. She is on the pill and she still says she is scared of getting pregnant. I have even suggested using vaginal spermicides, still nothing. This is bothersome as with my ex we were doing this after 3 months. Ladies any advice/help.

 

[NLR TJ]

One question, bro. Are you ready to do the right thing if she does, I know you want to use other methods but none are definate. Look, I may sound like a pig in this manor, but obviously she isn't ready for that and you need to respect that bro. Just do it on her, can be very entertaining and fun, and alot less dangerous, just mind the eyeballs. LOL

 

[trinigodzilla]

One question, bro. Are you ready to do the right thing if she does, I know you want to use other methods but none are definate. Look, I may sound like a pig in this manor, but obviously she isn't ready for that and you need to respect that bro. Just do it on her, can be very entertaining and fun, and alot less dangerous, just mind the eyeballs. LOL

Yes we have often talked about getting married and its just a financial step hold back at this point.

 

[SoKlueles]

Yeah respect her wishes, if she doesnt want to get pregnant, and obviously the bcp is safe but sometimes women get preg while on it, play it safe and let her be the one to decide to let u do it.....

 

[unikron]

make sure she is taking her pill and when she is starting her period the first day, cum inside her. she could theoreticallly still get pregnant but its waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay lower than just on the pill

 

[trinigodzilla]

Yeah respect her wishes, if she doesnt want to get pregnant, and obviously the bcp is safe but sometimes women get preg while on it, play it safe and let her be the one to decide to let u do it.....

It's just that I do not understand the fear. She seems to have a lot of irrational fears. What bothers me is that even when we talk about this activity after marriage she is still unsure.

 

[MissJanet79]

Well typically, it can take a while for a woman to be pregnant while on the pill...like I've been on the pill for 3 years & I'd have to be off of it for a few months in order to get pregnant. However there's always risks! But I know my body already...I had a scare before b/c I hadn't taken my pill in 5 days!! But it turned out fine... like the doc told me, (for me) I'd have to be off the pill for a few months if I wanted to get pregnant!
For the 3 years that I've been on the pill, that is literally the ONLY time I've been sexually active...so before that I wasn't. & for all 3 years, my ex & my current, came inside of me EVERY SINGLE TIME!!

 

[trinigodzilla]

Well typically, it can take a while for a woman to be pregnant while on the pill...like I've been on the pill for 3 years & I'd have to be off of it for a few months in order to get pregnant. However there's always risks! But I know my body already...I had a scare before b/c I hadn't taken my pill in 5 days!! But it turned out fine... like the doc told me, (for me) I'd have to be off the pill for a few months if I wanted to get pregnant!
For the 3 years that I've been on the pill, that is literally the ONLY time I've been sexually active...so before that I wasn't. & for all 3 years, my ex & my current, came inside of me EVERY SINGLE TIME!!

When I was with my ex(a little over 2 yrs) i came inside every single time. We had one scare and this girl would always forget to take the pill. My current girl in 3 1/2yrs has NEVER forgotten. I just don't get it. I should also say that this girl has nearly no sexual desire. I was good friends with her for a while so I know its not just with me. My ex couldn't get enough. The other weird thing is, I know or believe that the average girl can feel when a guy cums inside her, but my current seems to have no feeling in there. There have been about 4 mishaps since we have been together, and she never felt one. I feel bad but I didn't want to scare her so I never told her that is what happened.

 

[pinkpanther3speed]

the risks for getting pregnant is very low while on the pill, i was on the pill for fifteen years & never once did i get pregnant, i have now been off the pill for a year now & my fiance' & I all we have done over the last twelve months is he has pulled out & still no probs but we are getting married in seven weeks and then he can blow all he likes then!

 

[trinigodzilla]

the risks for getting pregnant is very low while on the pill, i was on the pill for fifteen years & never once did i get pregnant, i have now been off the pill for a year now & my fiance' & I all we have done over the last twelve months is he has pulled out & still no probs but we are getting married in seven weeks and then he can blow all he likes then!

your'e making me jealous I just don't know how to explain this to her. Any advice on getting over this hump, even other forms of doubling up on birth control.