Choking/strangling

[SFCSNOW]

I need some freak advice. New friend girl likes to be choked. Thing is she will not talk about it or show me what she likes. It just "slipped" out during the last time we hooked up. She is TINY. She's about 5'6" and only about 105 pounds. One of my hands almost wraps around her neck.

Is it a carotid artery thing or more of a treachea choke?

 

[musclemom]

I need some freak advice. New friend girl likes to be choked. Thing is she will not talk about it or show me what she likes. It just "slipped" out during the last time we hooked up. She is TINY. She's about 5'6" and only about 105 pounds. One of my hands almost wraps around her neck.

Is it a carotid artery thing or more of a treachea choke?

If she won't talk about it or discuss how she wants it done, then do not do it (and even then, I'd still think long and hard). Seriously. You can't just start choking someone while you're having at it without them having a "safe" way to express STOP to you (not like you can say anything when someone's choking you).

You are more than twice her weight, and she is petite, are you so sure that you are capable of knowing how much pressure is safe? Choking is not like spanking their ass, you could kill a person, and you will go to prison for murder. Doesn't matter if the choking is conscensual or not.

 

[SpyWizard]

i agree.. besides, if an "accident" happened... guess who's bruised neck and your finger prints all over it...

sex is good, but strangulation and Asphyxia either by a lover or alone is nothing to mess with..

 

[BNG]

There's a guy I used to know that was into this. David always said you'll know when to lighten up....

 

[2DIEZEL]

The person will pass out before they die, and im sure yull know when they go limp to stop. But you dont choke them until they pass out or they cannot breath but just enough to cut off some oxigen.

 

[musclemom]

The person will pass out before they die, and im sure yull know when they go limp to stop. But you dont choke them until they pass out or they cannot breath but just enough to cut off some oxigen.

I'm sure we can get a doctor in here to give us the exact numbers but I'm willing to bet it takes quite a bit less than 100 lbs. of pressure to crush or collapse a windpipe, especially on a skinny woman, not to mention the possibility of causing damage to the vessels and arteries in the neck itself.

 

[Smurfy]

i like some pressure around my neck in the heat of passion. i dont want to be all out choked though. hand around the neck applying some pressure makes me feel like Im being dominated. turns me on

 

[Smurfy]

oh wait, this wasnt about me heh.

 

[SFCSNOW]

I've done it with her a few times and each time gets better. I'm not a dumbass. No way will I hurt her in a way that causes physical damage. This girl is a real good friend and I know she has MANY issues from her past. Something tells me she was abused is some form. She just will not talk about it. In her own way ROUGH sex is how she deals I think. Don't flame me here. I know some will say I'm adding to the problem. She will act out with someone. If it's not me that actually cares about her it will be some asshole that could hurt her. I am just wanting to know how to do it as safe as possible and appease her desires.

 

[DJ_UFO]

Yall wont believe what sells today in the porn business....