I find that unhappy people always try to make life miserable for the other person at work. Jealousy, envy, insecurity are the three biggest things I can think of as to why these types of people act the way they do. Nasty gossip and backstabbing is everywhere. Here at work, I have my own little office in a seperated building from main office and I like it that way cause their are only 3 others that share the small building with me.
I treat people how they want to be treated, so I can be a good person for the most part and sometimes I have to be a prick, Its not in my character to be but I'm nobody's punk.
I only had to approach 2 people in my lifetime about respect and confront them straight up, cut the bullshit and talk in front of my face. Gusee what? Those 2 people , afetr getting all the negative energy out, have respected me like a real close friend. I say " WOW!!
I hope you guys have a great week!!