About to try swinging thing tomorrow ?

[manny78]

So I'll finally try this tomorrow. Sounds like we're gonna have a BBQ, some Sangria and then poufff. Now I'd like to know. Now is there some advices I should have before ? Things to do or not ? Also, what is best when doing this: fucking altogether in the same room or in separate rooms ?

Thanks

 

[needsize]

I don't have any advice but glad to hear you're finally going through with it

 

[Puddles]

Never did a swap, nor do I want to, but from my 3-some experience it's great to be in the same room...to see and hear all of the pleasures you're both receiving and giving is such a turn on!

But, once, I had to go pick up my daughter from a party and the three of us had been going at it all day. Since they were in the middle of fucking and I was already an hour late, I helped get her off one last time and said good-bye...OMG what a turn-on that was. The whole time I was gone I couldn't get them out of my mind...the last vision I had of them was my husband on top of her pounding away. I wound up leaving my daughter where she was so I could join them when I got back home. Too horny to have the kid home! LOL

You'll have to experiment and find out what floats your boat most...if you're like me, you'll enjoy both.

 

[guards]

Never did a swap, nor do I want to, but from my 3-some experience it's great to be in the same room...to see and hear all of the pleasures you're both receiving and giving is such a turn on!

But, once, I had to go pick up my daughter from a party and the three of us had been going at it all day. Since they were in the middle of fucking and I was already an hour late, I helped get her off one last time and said good-bye...OMG what a turn-on that was. The whole time I was gone I couldn't get them out of my mind...the last vision I had of them was my husband on top of her pounding away. I wound up leaving my daughter where she was so I could join them when I got back home. Too horny to have the kid home! LOL

You'll have to experiment and find out what floats your boat most...if you're like me, you'll enjoy both.

Out of interest, would it be as arousing being with two men as it was with another woman and your husband??

 

[Puddles]

Out of interest, would it be as arousing being with two men as it was with another woman and your husband??

NO! Um...first of all, I have no interest in having a 3-some with another guy, but to see my husband with another guy...I'm sorry, not my cup of tea at all.

 

[guards]

NO! Um...first of all, I have no interest in having a 3-some with another guy, but to see my husband with another guy...I'm sorry, not my cup of tea at all.

\I'm not saying that your husband would be having sex with another man, perhaps two men going at you.

 

[Texmuscle]

I think the arrangement depends on a lot of factors.

Do you want to do some stuff with the other chick you never get to do with your girl? If so, maybe the separate rooms approach might be best, since your lady may not want to see you being quite so studly/nasty etc with someone else. And vice versa. Are you comfortable if your woman starts getting wilder than shit with the other guy?

Then there is just the whole sensory aspect of it. Does the idea of watching the sex, hearing it etc. turn you on? Then you want to be in the same room. But if the reason you're doing it is more to have the variety of the other babe, no need to be in the same room.

And the other couple may have expectations on this front - - they may expect to be in the same room with each other.

No protocol on this man. Just ask what they want and come to a consensus as to what everyone will be comfortable with. personally, I think there is nothing hotter than being in a room where people are deeply into the sex taking place and hearing the sounds of all that. Very primal. But that may not be for you.

Have fun!

 

[HansNZ]

I haven't had a foursome, only a couple of threesomes with couples.

The first one was good because I got all the attention (I was the novelty). The second was was really awful. The chemistry wasn't there and we all felt clumsy. Because I was the extra component I felt self-conscious and responsible for the lack of fireworks. My anxiety just compounded this situation and made it worse.

Just go ahead and try to enjoy yourself as much as possible. If it works - great - if it doesn't then don't be put off. They will probably be just as nervous and unfamiliar with the situation. As such, whatever you suggest they will probably go along with.

 

[Puddles]

\I'm not saying that your husband would be having sex with another man, perhaps two men going at you.

In the past a MMF 3-some really turned me on, but right now it doesn't...not in terms of actually doing it myself. Seeing it in a movie is cool though!

And thanks for clearing up the sex part between the guys...that one gave me the chills.

 

[guards]

And thanks for clearing up the sex part between the guys...that one gave me the chills.

Me too...lol