About to loose my girlfriend... Help!

[fsupat70]

i agree with you bee. most women are extremly selfish and only care about their wants. i dont sit there and bitch to my gf if she doesnt give me head every day so they need to stop complaing about all their wants and realize how lucky they are to have men like me

 

[KillahBee]

i agree with you bee. most women are extremly selfish and only care about their wants. i dont sit there and bitch to my gf if she doesnt give me head every day so they need to stop complaing about all their wants and realize how lucky they are to have men like me

lol!
well, I wasn't going that far, but, I really am sick of women believing that it is their God-given right to be given "attention" from men. How is that a healthy way to go through life? I had a cute girl at work actually tell me that she didn't like me when I first started working there because I didn't give her any attention. And there is another girl at work that definitely doesn't like me at all even though I never even got the chance to really talk with her and I suspect it is because I don't give her the attention that she has come to expect. It's quite sad, actually.

 

[SoKlueles]

GRRRRRRRRRRRR that is not what i mean. I dont mean attention all the time. but just some sweetness sometimes geez...I mean, my ex and i split because he was too busy doing things for himself and not including me or the kids. He had his life and forgot about us. Geez....you guys like ur attention dont u? fsu likes his blowjobs.and im sure u like urs too Killah, we all need attention. Its human nature

 

[KillahBee]

GRRRRRRRRRRRR that is not what i mean. I dont mean attention all the time. but just some sweetness sometimes geez...I mean, my ex and i split because he was too busy doing things for himself and not including me or the kids. He had his life and forgot about us. Geez....you guys like ur attention dont u? fsu likes his blowjobs.and im sure u like urs too Killah, we all need attention. Its human nature

I understand we all need attention, and yes, I need mine and my blow jobs too. However, I have to think that many people would agree with me- in general and in everyday cases (not extreme cases like your husband neglecting his family) females have the mindset that attention will be given to them and that this is only natural.

 

[SoKlueles]

I dont think its so bad that a woman needs attention. Or anyone needing attention. It makes some of us feel better.

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

hope this helps with losing your girlfriend Visitor

 

[TheVisitor]

I got this from one of the guys on here (no names), and wanted to share with everybody, hope he doesn't mind...

"...My GF says I stoped paying much attention to her and found other things important. I thought she could never make it with out me and would never leave, I really did take her for granted and did put other things before her, but when she was gone I realized that she was the best friend I could ever have.
All you can do is to show her how much you care and that U need her and remind her of all the good times and when she talkes about the fights yall had or the times you diddnt pay enough attention just tell her that you can change everything for her."

 

[jubei]

I think its flattering when my girlfriends want attention from me. Why are you with them if you don't want to show them any affection? BTW, guys need just as much attention as women, they just won't go out and say it.

 

[KillahBee]

I think its flattering when my girlfriends want attention from me. Why are you with them if you don't want to show them any affection? BTW, guys need just as much attention as women, they just won't go out and say it.

the point is, attention is attention, if they don't get it from you they will get it elsewhere, my man. a girl doesn't meet a super cool guy and all of a sudden become an attention whore. SHe was an attention whore before you and she will be after you (I don't mean you personally).

 

[nadr7891]

Women are careful creatures and they will put safety nets in place before they let go of your arm.

They will, for example, have a couple of new guy friends to chat with on the phone, and start going out to clubs a little, and then tell you it is too late it is over...and it wont hurt them as bad, because they are braced for the fall.

good God, when you're right you're right. TRUE DAT.

when they start losing weight, making new guy friends and changing their hairstyle, get ready 'cause they're leaving.