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About to loose my girlfriend... Help!
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TheVisitor
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I love my girlfriend and she is about to leave.
Never fooled around, just kindda minded my own business, not enough attention I suppose... thought she would never leave... she always loved me, I guess she just had enough.
Ever find yourself when you just do your thing and live your life taking your partner for granted?..
Why do we do this and then wonder why they leave???
Never fooled around, just kindda minded my own business, not enough attention I suppose... thought she would never leave... she always loved me, I guess she just had enough.
Ever find yourself when you just do your thing and live your life taking your partner for granted?..
Why do we do this and then wonder why they leave???
You hit the nail on the head.....I can't agree anymore with what you said. I would just like some attention, not the whole show. I think men forget that other men pick up on that lack of attention and start showing us more to tempt us to leave. Start today by showing her what she means to you!!!
EXACTLY.....women need affection.....just like men. Men try to act like they dont need it, but yes, they need it big time. We get insecure with ourselves when our own men dont show affection. Just show her you love her, spend time with her..make her feel loved.....because she deserves it.
bouncerulove
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ZKaudio said:
this is great advice.......
i found if you try to get them back too much they lose more respect for you.....if she says no, don't call her for 2 weeks, then call her and tell you want to fuck the shit out of her, then leave........she'll go for it 7-8 times out of 10......but you have to leave when you're finished, then don't call her until she calls you........and, she will 7-8 times out of 10 call you and tell you she misses you and she wants 2 talk......
works for me, 7-8 times out of 10
sh4dowf4lcon
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Neglected women are easy targets for players and other men. Usually by the time the girl tells you ... it is too late.
Women are careful creatures and they will put safety nets in place before they let go of your arm.
They will, for example, have a couple of new guy friends to chat with on the phone, and start going out to clubs a little, and then tell you it is too late it is over...and it wont hurt them as bad, because they are braced for the fall.
Learn what you can from this and prevent it in the future, but if she leaves you without giving you an opportunity to make it right, she is not the right one.
Women are careful creatures and they will put safety nets in place before they let go of your arm.
They will, for example, have a couple of new guy friends to chat with on the phone, and start going out to clubs a little, and then tell you it is too late it is over...and it wont hurt them as bad, because they are braced for the fall.
Learn what you can from this and prevent it in the future, but if she leaves you without giving you an opportunity to make it right, she is not the right one.
KillahBee
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SoKlueles said:
I personally think that this is the problem with women, or should I say girls. Nowadays, every female I run across (I am 24) truly believes (due to the way society has been running) that she deserves attention and affection from men, by natural right. And when she doesn't get it, the man is being insensitive or selfish.
You just summed it up, stating that "the reason we leave is because we feel lonely...neglected". Does this not seem immature to anyone else? That is how a child acts when others are not playing with them at the playground. I, personally, have come to the end of the rope with females today. I can't imagine ever finding a girl my age that is strong, confident, dependent, and doesn't hide behind the excuses that "society" (I know, it's cliche) makes for her.
KillahBee
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fsupat70 said:
lol!
well, I wasn't going that far, but, I really am sick of women believing that it is their God-given right to be given "attention" from men. How is that a healthy way to go through life? I had a cute girl at work actually tell me that she didn't like me when I first started working there because I didn't give her any attention. And there is another girl at work that definitely doesn't like me at all even though I never even got the chance to really talk with her and I suspect it is because I don't give her the attention that she has come to expect. It's quite sad, actually.
GRRRRRRRRRRRR that is not what i mean. I dont mean attention all the time. but just some sweetness sometimes geez...I mean, my ex and i split because he was too busy doing things for himself and not including me or the kids. He had his life and forgot about us. Geez....you guys like ur attention dont u? fsu likes his blowjobs.and im sure u like urs too Killah, we all need attention. Its human nature
KillahBee
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SoKlueles said:
I understand we all need attention, and yes, I need mine and my blow jobs too. However, I have to think that many people would agree with me- in general and in everyday cases (not extreme cases like your husband neglecting his family) females have the mindset that attention will be given to them and that this is only natural.
sh4dowf4lcon
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hope this helps with losing your girlfriend Visitor
TheVisitor
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I got this from one of the guys on here (no names), and wanted to share with everybody, hope he doesn't mind...
"...My GF says I stoped paying much attention to her and found other things important. I thought she could never make it with out me and would never leave, I really did take her for granted and did put other things before her, but when she was gone I realized that she was the best friend I could ever have.
All you can do is to show her how much you care and that U need her and remind her of all the good times and when she talkes about the fights yall had or the times you diddnt pay enough attention just tell her that you can change everything for her."
"...My GF says I stoped paying much attention to her and found other things important. I thought she could never make it with out me and would never leave, I really did take her for granted and did put other things before her, but when she was gone I realized that she was the best friend I could ever have.
All you can do is to show her how much you care and that U need her and remind her of all the good times and when she talkes about the fights yall had or the times you diddnt pay enough attention just tell her that you can change everything for her."
KillahBee
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jubei said:
the point is, attention is attention, if they don't get it from you they will get it elsewhere, my man. a girl doesn't meet a super cool guy and all of a sudden become an attention whore. SHe was an attention whore before you and she will be after you (I don't mean you personally).
presguy
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women today place all responsibility on the guy. and women are actually becomming worse than guys ever were. i mean the cheating, taking away money and the things guys work hard for. honestly, i wouldnt and couldnt trust a woman. they are very very very cold. love you one second, the next you are not even a thought.
Russian KGB
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presguy said:
I think MEN are the ones that CAN'T BE TRUSTED in general. I deal with a lot of men on a daily basis and seems like the worst ones are married or the ones in relationships. That just makes you wanna be with one! Why do you guys think a lot of women now-a-days turn gay?..
unclebully
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What the fuck are you talking about?
Why do you girls think a lot of guys turn gay?
Why do you girls think a lot of guys turn gay?
unclebully
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All I can say is men and woman are both as bad as each other.
Russian KGB
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Never take another person for granted!
"Live each day is if it's your last one, and go to bed with no regrets!"
"Live each day is if it's your last one, and go to bed with no regrets!"
sweetnes11
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KillahBee said:
This is the dumbest statment a man ( I really mean a boy) has ever said
What? You think a woman that dosen't need a man, financially, or emotionally , would want a man that pays her no attention ,and affection. What would she need you for????
Grow up. In the world today there are a lot of women that work outside the home. Some make more money then the men. So what then.I ask again . What would she need you for???
So we can clean up after you? Tend to your needs?
A woman has a lot to offer and if you can't give out some affection and attention. You Don't deserve to have a woman in your life.
I am talking from experience, I have been married for 24 years. Let me change That I have been happily married for 24 years.
There is nothing wrong with saying you are lonely. I have been lonely before,And I am sure that most people in here have at sometime or another. that is what a relationship is all about. being together, sharing. enjoying each other.
because your fucked up. if you are so starved for attention you go gay, or some other dramatic shit, you are fucked up. period. stop pointing fingers, and look in the mirror. the only common denominator is YOU.
another great laugh is the blow jobs equal attention line in here. which leads me to.......
ppl so fixed on getting so much attention, cant give any. they suck it all up, and there is none left. and heres why women are the worse at this:
because, by and large, women are used to getting guys thrown at them. and they either love it, and expect it, or they boor of it, and fall into a different quagmire.
very few guys get this, and the ones who do are good looking, nice body, well off, or a combo of the above. as such, we are far more realistic and grounded.
short version: while life is telling most women they are special, most men are at least not getting that, or being told the opposite.
and in cases where the relationship ended due to lack of attention, its often not the mans fault.
sweetnes11
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jubei said:
OMG you finally said somthing nice!!!! And smart too!!
Ok fuck hope.... i read what u just said....
The part where u said in cases where the relationship ended due to lack of attention....its often not the mans part.. That is your opinion..it is not the truth....women are more emotional than men are...trust me My bf says im way too emotional...and hes frigging hard to read.... we have fights because of it. Its not just women with lack of attention....it is both ways
The part where u said in cases where the relationship ended due to lack of attention....its often not the mans part.. That is your opinion..it is not the truth....women are more emotional than men are...trust me My bf says im way too emotional...and hes frigging hard to read.... we have fights because of it. Its not just women with lack of attention....it is both ways
klueless:
i also said 'often'. youll rarly see me speak in absolutes, even though it may be a subtle qualifier.
and its not an opinion, its a generality that holds out for most.
the men on this thread are talking about a certain type of woman, who make up a decent percentage of women out there. why are you defending them like its te whole sex?
i also said 'often'. youll rarly see me speak in absolutes, even though it may be a subtle qualifier.
and its not an opinion, its a generality that holds out for most.
the men on this thread are talking about a certain type of woman, who make up a decent percentage of women out there. why are you defending them like its te whole sex?
The only way not to get hurt, and to always come out on top, is to be a player...Always know that your better, and can do better than what you got...When you meet the one that you know your not better than, and cant do better than, thats the one you should keep.
Women that cheat are women that dont get enough sex or good sex, love, or attention....or 9 times out of 10 they simply are whores and its in their nature to be that way.
Women that cheat are women that dont get enough sex or good sex, love, or attention....or 9 times out of 10 they simply are whores and its in their nature to be that way.
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Neglected women are easy targets for players and other men. Usually by the time the girl tells you ... it is too late.
Women are careful creatures and they will put safety nets in place before they let go of your arm.
this part of your statement is true, but i dont agree with the rest
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(post #9)
Neglected women are easy targets for players and other men. Usually by the time the girl tells you ... it is too late.
Women are careful creatures and they will put safety nets in place before they let go of your arm.
this part of your statement is true, but i dont agree with the rest
