Andalite
Elite Bodybuilder
True. But is this something you are competing in? If you're doing PL'ing at a professional level, then competing is crucial but do you think teams compete WITHIN each other? No way man.True that but competition is one of the best things to make people perform better...shit people wouldn't be nearly as strong and good as they are in life without competition.
Which of the two scenarios is better? You hit a 500 lbs Deadlift for 20 reps.
(a) I say "Awesome, dude. What now?"
(b) I say "Awesome. Now sit back and watch while I destroy 500 lbs and make you look like a little girl."
Which is gonna be more productive? Hell...I'd like someone to guide me to better myself. I am in this for myself. I could care less (and I don't mean anything bad by this) whether you hit 500 lbs or 600 or 200 or even 100 lbs. I'd love to cheer you on and guide you and help you and do everything possible to get you strong but no way are your achievements going to spur my progress.
Having said that, I agree with you: a little competition is fine because it brings out the best in us but when it becomes into the sole discussion in a thread where every workout is followed by "you're not catching up to X person fast enough" or "fuck you bitch I am 1000000x stronger than you" then we're losing focus of the goal here: to better ourselves.
I am not bashing you. This was just a general observation. I have nothing against YOU and this is not directed towards anything particular which you have said.