Why is it so hard to find a casual sex relationship?

[HumorMe]

What is that about?

I just want a steady casual relationship. From your comment, I get the impression that there is something wrong with that. Isn't this what all you guys "dream" of: no strings attached sex?!

I just thought your description of what you wanted was funny. You want sex but nothing serious but you aren't into one night stands.

You are just looking for a good fuck buddy. Nothing wrong with that if you are into that.

 

[BileStew]

Find me one and I will fuck him till he spits blood.

Who are you, Linda Blair?

If what you say about yourself is true, then honestly, I cannot see why you're having a hard time finding a fuck toy.

 

[the nature boy]

I am in my mid 30's and ideally I find guys that are late 30's to mid 40's most appealing. I don't like younger men at all. I seem to intimidate them anyways. I have dated much older men, but I generally intimidate them as well. Truth be told I think I intimidate most men. Perhaps that is why I have such a hard time finding a guy that I am attracted to. I am, I guess you can say, "a handfull". LOL

i see. what is a "regular basis" for you in terms of frequency of sex? once a week? perhaps the guys you meet want to have see you/fuck you more frequently than you do?

do you lay out the ground rules to guys you might be interested in having sexual relations with? perhaps if you tell them where you stand from an early point it'll prevent them from getting too attached.

you sound like you need to find a guy who is extremly busy. like someone who is out of town a lot. guys with free time will most likely call you up and want to hang out or someshit.

also, why is it that you want to only have a physical relationship on a regular basis? you're not looking to date someone? just curious.

 

[Dial_tone]

and didnt you know its a sin to refuse Dial_tone when he asks for pics?

did I ask for pics?..........oh.....yeah, I was gonna. Pic please, PM for email addy.

 

[the nature boy]

Who are you, Linda Blair?

yes, especially when she's taking one of her world famous 5 minute shits.

 

[Werd]

i see. what is a "regular basis" for you in terms of frequency of sex? once a week? perhaps the guys you meet want to have see you/fuck you more frequently than you do?

do you lay out the ground rules to guys you might be interested in having sexual relations with? perhaps if you tell them where you stand from an early point it'll prevent them from getting too attached.

you sound like you need to find a guy who is extremly busy. like someone who is out of town a lot. guys with free time will most likely call you up and want to hang out or someshit.

also, why is it that you want to only have a physical relationship on a regular basis? you're not looking to date someone? just curious.

I have a very high drive - if this were a committed relationship I would require sex no less than 5 nights p/week. However, this is not what I am asking for. I would ideally like 2 nights p/week or even 3 but any more than that and the guy would undoubtedly get on my nerves. My life is very busy and I don't feel the need to go explaining why I don't want to see someone that night. See? The beauty of "no strings attached".

I would LOVE to find a steady SO, but right now that isn't possible for me so I have given up. But I am missing the closeness of good sex - a one night stand is not good for me or remotely satisfying as I have to like or have some affection for a guy for the sex to be good.

I am not asking for love, don't want or need that. Not willing to even try at this point in time - just being honest.

As for ground rules? I haven't met a man that I honestly wanted to tease/provoke for over 2 years and no, I have not been under a rock. It just takes a lot to hold my interest, is all.

 

[BileStew]

I have a very high drive - if this were a committed relationship I would require sex no less than 5 nights p/week. However, this is not what I am asking for. I would ideally like 2 nights p/week or even 3 but any more than that and the guy would undoubtedly get on my nerves. My life is very busy and I don't feel the need to go explaining why I don't want to see someone that night. See? The beauty of "no strings attached".

I am not asking for love, don't want or need that. Not willing to even try at this point in time - just being honest.

Damn, why couldn't my ex-wife have said this as her wedding vows?

We'd probably still be together.

 

[Dial_tone]

Werd, what if you have a regular rotation of 1-3 guys that were clean & not sleeping around alot? Not group gropes but assuming you could find what you need in 2-3 men but not all in one....would that work?

 

[Werd]

Part of the reason why marriages break up... and perhaps relationships in general: lack of honesty.

However, everyone is allowed to change their minds, that is when shit gets hairy....

Me, I just want a friend with priviliges. He doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous and I could give a shit how he earns his dough. If he is buff, shaved, good in the sack, funny, kind and honest - I am there.

Problem is - HE AINT. LOL

Seriously, it takes a very peculiar combination for me to find a man attractive. And even if I do initially, I quickly lose interest.

 

[HumorMe]

Damn, why couldn't my ex-wife have said this as her wedding vows?

We'd probably still be together.

You shouldn't have let her eat the wedding cake. Best birth control food ever.