Why is it so hard to find a casual sex relationship?

[Dial_tone]

There are women out there like this. My girl is one of them....problem is everything has gotten too good and I want more. I can see other people but I have next to zero desire to (unless Daisy_Girl or Seashell ring my doorbell butt nekkid). I have two standing offers for booty anytime in AZ & MD, I just don't want them.

 

[the nature boy]

I take shits longer than that.

ah. now this thread is getting good.

 

[Werd]

See, this is the trouble w/American men. (And yes, I realize that you guys are poking fun to some extent.) But they all bitch and moan that this one or that one is a slut because she puts out then you all talk about how your lives are over because no woman wants to give you sex.

Dudes, wake the fuck up. There are many many women who have sexual urges that are just as strong as (if not stronger than yours) this doesn't mean that we are "defective" or undesirable in any way, just means that we love sex. However, you don't get to find that out because then you lable us as "whores".

NO DUH you ain't gettin' the poo-nanny.

All kidding aside, I think this thread speaks volumes as to my frustration. Here I am - what "all guys dream of" and yet within 10 minutes I have been degraded....

I just want some sex from basically one guy on a somewhat regular basis if it suits us both. What is so hard to believe about that?

Don't want to be a girlfriend or a wife. Ain't gonna bring ya home to meet the family and I sure the shit don't want to meet yours, but I am not into one night stands either.

Why is this so hard?

 

[BileStew]

Ain't gonna bring ya home to meet the family and I sure the shit don't want to meet yours,

Good, because my Mom doesn't like when guests take shits in her bathroom for more then 5 minutes.

 

[the nature boy]

See, this is the trouble w/American men. (And yes, I realize that you guys are poking fun to some extent.) But they all bitch and moan that this one or that one is a slut because she puts out then you all talk about how your lives are over because no woman wants to give you sex.

Dudes, wake the fuck up. There are many many women who have sexual urges that are just as strong as (if not stronger than yours) this doesn't mean that we are "defective" or undesirable in any way, just means that we love sex. However, you don't get to find that out because then you lable us as "whores".

NO DUH you ain't gettin' the poo-nanny.

All kidding aside, I think this thread speaks volumes as to my frustration. Here I am - what "all guys dream of" and yet within 10 minutes I have been degraded....

I just want some sex from basically one guy on a somewhat regular basis if it suits us both. What is so hard to believe about that?

Don't want to be a girlfriend or a wife. Ain't gonna bring ya home to meet the family and I sure the shit don't want to meet yours, but I am not into one night stands either.

Why is this so hard?

ok, now I have to be serious for one second. how old are you (if you don't mind saying) and how old are they guys you go after?

 

[HumorMe]

Don't want to be a girlfriend or a wife. Ain't gonna bring ya home to meet the family and I sure the shit don't want to meet yours, but I am not into one night stands either.

Why is this so hard?

Oh....so you have standards. You didn't explain it that way the first time.

 

[Werd]

ok, now I have to be serious for one second. how old are you (if you don't mind saying) and how old are they guys you go after?

I am in my mid 30's and ideally I find guys that are late 30's to mid 40's most appealing. I don't like younger men at all. I seem to intimidate them anyways. I have dated much older men, but I generally intimidate them as well. Truth be told I think I intimidate most men. Perhaps that is why I have such a hard time finding a guy that I am attracted to. I am, I guess you can say, "a handfull". LOL

 

[Werd]

Oh....so you have standards. You didn't explain it that way the first time.

What is that about?

I just want a steady casual relationship. From your comment, I get the impression that there is something wrong with that. Isn't this what all you guys "dream" of: no strings attached sex?!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

dont see your problem...if you look good and pick a guy you like, just be a bit forward and youll get him...there arent too many that turn down no strings sex on tap

not to cut too close to the bone but either youre shooting out of your league or youre sitting back waiting for it to happen, which it usually doesnt on its own

get out there and ask a guy on a date, then tell him what you just told us. cant go wrong

and didnt you know its a sin to refuse Dial_tone when he asks for pics?

 

[Werd]

dont see your problem...if you look good and pick a guy you like, just be a bit forward and youll get him...there arent too many that turn down no strings sex on tap

not to cut too close to the bone but either youre shooting out of your league or youre sitting back waiting for it to happen, which it usually doesnt on its own

get out there and ask a guy on a date, then tell him what you just told us. cant go wrong

and didnt you know its a sin to refuse Dial_tone when he asks for pics?

Your comments are fair, however, inapplicable. I know that many men are attracted to me, however, it is extremely rare that I find a man equally attractive.

How many good looking guys are there out there that could get laid every night of the week if they so choose but they do not? I am the same. I would have no trouble finding sex. I am having trouble finding quality. I like older men that are buff and funny and smart and kind.

Find me one and I will fuck him till he spits blood.