Hmm.. good question.. Its not about "picking" one.. the only times it been with another guy was at Swingers clubs with guys we were alreadyfriends with,.. and for her its mostly about "comfort".. \
As far as how we pick women.. its all looks baby LOL. My girlfriend likes women more than men.. so escapades with other women are much mroe common... and of course other couples... but thats a whole other story.
Jealousy.. no.. Its hard to explian but the act of sex itself is so far removed from wht her and I have between them its hard to even classify it as the same act.
With other peole its just a physical act for fun and pleasure.. no emotional connection.. between her and I.. its allabout the emotional connection. If she had that with someone else.. hell ya Id be jealous.. but if that were a worry neither of us would be doing it in the first place.
Im too jealous to have a 3some. too stingy as well.
Id freak out if I even saw a girl touch my man, so can you imagine if id see one fucking my man. Id tear her clit out.
lmao
Why are you so jealous Paganpunktress?? Jealousy comes from fear..
Considering you have pagan beliefs.. Im very surprised to read that.. Im going to gather your pagan beliefs are Northern European derived and possesion of another is diametrically opposed to that concept.. would seem physical sharing would be a much more natural thing to you.. even spiritual in nature.
but then again.. maybe its just your screen name LOL.
I am amazed at the open-mindedness of certain people... and at the close-mindedness of others...
There is a lot to be done between 2 bodies ony... in my opinion, enough to last a lifetime, without the need to add a 3rd or 4th party... I am not closed to the idea, but it's not something I am actively pursuing either...