Unattractive men do get the hotties

[the.gladiator1987]

I'm the whack job, and yet you have the audacity to know the mind of God? Well done and bless your precociousness.

Honestly, I DO know significantly more about Java than you do, and I know there are several women on this board who will back me on my comments, 'nough said, leave it there, m'kay?

I may be a whack job, dear, but at least I managed to raise a son that knew enough to never stick his penis in a woman without wearing a rain coat, even when he was younger than you.

As for your perceptions of magic, trying thinking this way": Praying to some unseen/unknown bearded old man who lives in the sky for health or healing is faith. But if I call upon the God Herne or the Goddess Morrigan, that's crazy, right?

Tell me, dear, did you ever read the 10 commandments? Read #1. Then RE-read number one. I want you to think, long and hard, about the fact the commandment is "Thou shalt have no other gods before me." Think about it. Because when Yahweh is saying you will have NO gods before me, Yahweh is ALSO saying THERE are other gods.

And BTW, WTF is it with Christians following ancient Hebrew texts? I'll never get that. If you're a real Christian you should totally disregard the entire Old Testament, at least as religious teachings. I mean, c'mon, Gospel is all about Christian liturgy, and what, exactly, does that have to do with ancient Hebrew texts?

How do I follow the old testament in any way?

Commandment #1 is saying you should have no other Gods, meaning don't have anything in your life that would BE a God. As in money, power, etc. Or you are right, don't believe in another supreme being and make him your "god"

And this kid if he is mine will be a blessing to me, whether I want to think it is good for me or not, it is all part of my plan and I am fully responsible for him. I already love him he is so cute

 

[mrplunkey]

I'm sorry, dear, but you've got it backwards. The friendship part is critical ... hot, sweaty, dirty talking hair pulling is something you can develop. However, if a mental connection isn't there to begin with, it will NEVER be there. So when sweaty hair pulling gets boring (and trust me, it will, there is NO relationship that can last based PURELY on physicality) you look at each other and go "WHAT?" And realize you've made a major life mistake.

If the chick is pushing two bills with a busted grill, she prolly shouldn't rely too heavily on developing "hot, sweaty" anything except the spaces between her folds.

Seriously, why do you think the divorce rate is over 50%? It's because young dumb fucks like you, male and female, think sexual chemistry = sound relationship foundation.

There's more of that "evolved" language!

And I can say this because 28 years ago, I believed the same damned thing.

Good sex is just that. You can fuck someone and have a blast and not really like them. Successful relationships are built on the stuff that happens ABOVE the neck line.

I agree with this part. Refusing to give oral is definitely a red flag.

 

[mrplunkey]

I may be a whack job, dear, but at least I managed to raise a son that knew enough to never stick his penis in a woman without wearing a rain coat, even when he was younger than you.

Whereas my mom wasted all her time teaching me math and science.




But come to think of it, I kinda figured the sex part out on my own.

 

[BlueBird]

Your new age bullshit is stupid. One of my best friends is into the same shit you are and he's fucked up.

Wiccan originates from Shamanism, which is most likely the oldest form of organized religion. To call Wiccan, New Age is akin to calling Christianity the New Age derivation of Judiasm. Just sayin.

 

[AFeedz]

Guys, MM isn't going to turn away from her belief system because you all don't agree with it. And the Christians around here aren't going to turn from theirs because MM and whoever else doesn't agree with theirs. There's no point in arguing it. People put so much passion into their choice of belief system or choice against having one at all that you're never going to change their mind no matter how logical, factual or great your argument is. There's no point. MM's beliefs are harming nobody and neither are Glad's and neither are others' lack thereof.

 

[AFeedz]

Bro if there is not hot , sweaty , dirty sex ( the kind where you pull there hair an have them talk dirty) it will never work out.

you have to have a modicum of respectful connection when you hang out, but it does not have to be pals bffl kinda thing.
Its just has to be chill.

If you cant seal the deal with perverted sex none of you will be happy for long.

Agreed that one needs to be sexually satisfied to be and continue to be happy in a relationship, but if there's no deeper mental/emotional connection then the sex becomes just sex, that which a man or woman could get from any freak on the street. The sex you can't just get from anybody is the kind you have with someone you're more deeply connected to than just via your sexual organs.

To keep the sex the type of sex that you can't go leave the relationship and get from someone else, it kind of does need to be a bffl kind of connection and trust. Otherwise, what's to stop either party from getting the same sex from someone else?

That being said, both parties to def need to keep the sex hot to make the relationship last, it's just not the only thing that matters, IMO.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

I always had hot sex with my ex, and she still cheated on me

 

[AFeedz]

Yeah and she was having hot sex with someone else probably from the beginning, so you guys probably never even formed the connection I'm talking about.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

Yeah and she was having hot sex with someone else probably from the beginning, so you guys probably never even formed the connection I'm talking about.

eh. Makes me sick to even talk about it. Im gonna go throw up brb

 

[musclemom]

Guddamn why do you waste your intelligence and wit on a site like this. You obviously far beyond the constraints that we (dumfucks, retards, wack jobs) are confined by *rolls eyes*. Your mental judgement is typically spot on with your rationale, you win okay. Your arguments are clearly right as far as your concerned and honestly what could we say about ANYTHING that even remotely makes you question the way you analyze things.

I just dont understand why you waste your time, enlighten us?

Because every so often I actually enjoy a good argument, my husband, however, does not. Additionally, this forum allows the use of vulgarity and some direct insults, which virtually none do anymore, this is particularly the case with a lot of the "headier" forums.

And, incidentally, if someone makes a valid point that contradicts me, while I may (or may not) acknowledge it here, I will think about about it and take it into consideration in my day to day life. I've actually learned a lot about people hanging out in this forum.