Unattractive men do get the hotties

[blueta2]

i'd like some proof that the two females mentioned in the first post are actually attractive.


hot to a chick is generally average at best to a guy.

I would NOT post her pic on EF, but many folks here have me on their FB and this Megan Fox is also on my FB, so I can show them her pic. They would agree, even though I am old and senile.

 

[blueta2]

Bliue have you ever seen the opposite case? Hot guy, average looking chic?

Hey
Not often, but a few times.
At my high school reunion, some major stud puppy walked and and all the girls were drooling, then we realized, he was the husband of a very large and sorta Rosanne like women we went to high school with. Thing is, this girl was the sweetest and nothing like Rosanne.
I could see why he loved her.

 

[blueta2]

Ghetto, I find the total opposite. I was a schelp im my early 30's and started to take care of myself in my mid 30's, I look better now than I did when I was 30 and I'm 44.
Women are taking way better care of themselves.

I would see women like modest/shy guys. Not dead heads or non commiuncative, but shy is nice.

men and women will never see eye to eye, it's about love, respect and again, how much two can tolerate.

 

[Arcon167]

Ghetto, I find the total opposite. I was a schelp im my early 30's and started to take care of myself in my mid 30's, I look better now than I did when I was 30 and I'm 44.
Women are taking way better care of themselves.

I would see women like modest/shy guys. Not dead heads or non commiuncative, but shy is nice.

men and women will never see eye to eye, it's about love, respect and again, how much two can tolerate.

LOL
Still even if dude had the wisdom, maturity, and game... still don't see you with a troll... of course with those qualities he would'nt be a troll, but shrek.
I don't see you with shrek.

 

[trex74]

Ghetto, I find the total opposite. I was a schelp im my early 30's and started to take care of myself in my mid 30's, I look better now than I did when I was 30 and I'm 44.
Women are taking way better care of themselves.

I would see women like modest/shy guys. Not dead heads or non commiuncative, but shy is nice.

men and women will never see eye to eye, it's about love, respect and again, how much two can tolerate.

Not for me...
I married the most outgoing, hottest, immodest, funnest, most popular guy I have ever known, and he's amazing and I love him. I don't want to have to be the one who draws someone out of their shell...Too much work, I would rather be able just to be myself and not worry about someone's shyness.
I'm no shrinking violet either, but in comparison he is the least shy between the two of us.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I've come to the conclusion most women don't have a clue what they want until they hit their 30's. At this point the majority of women start going down hill physically.

If I'm lucky I'll end up meeting a beautiful chick that has transitioned past her dumbass phase and still keeps herself in good order one of these days.

By dumbass phase I mean women that fall for cheesy ass fuckers that come off all mega macho or uber confident when I know I could shove my foot up this guys ass. Women that equate a nice/modest guy to wimp or loser. Women that fall for assholes and think bad boys are "interesting". Ya, if you consider someone taking the equivalent of a crap on you all the time as a sexual turn on(oh so many women). Guy A is a bitch nigga and treats you like crap and acts like he's billy badass and over here I stand modest if not abit shy yet that guy likely couldn't hold my jockstrap. I see this every day.

I've gotten to the point that I don't even pursue women in my age group(30) + or - 5 years.

It's almost comical in a sad way too because I have been told by a few very gorgeous women how handsome I am and have been with a few knockouts in my high school days.

With a guy like me I know what I can and can't do. I probably come across as a rather modest/shy guy which seems to turn off the majority of women even though I am bigger, stronger, smarter, and probably alot tougher than countless men I see walking around with attractive girlfriends. I don't have to act like a tough guy or a badass because I already know I am to a certain extent.

I have standards, but they have dropped massively since I was in highschool because I can see past physical perfection now. I still have to be physically attracted to a girl, but now it might be the sound of her voice or the look of her hands as something I find very desirable besides being a decent looking girl. This is just from initial impressions.

I also am grounded in reality and know that I am not perfect by a longshot as well.

I just can't act like I'm not interested in a woman I find attractive. I can't treat a woman like shit even if I know it means I'll get her in bed. The few, very few times I have treated an attractive girl like shit because I was having a bad day or something are the few times I have had girls aggressively pursue me which blows me the fuck away. It's completely ass backwards.

I always end up remembering and old line between a novice mountain man and an old grizzled mountain man in bear skins(the movie Jeremiah Johnson). The young guy asks the old guy about whether he misses having a woman around. The old guy replies he never had much luck with them and can't seem to see eye to eye with them so why bother.

Eh, whatever.

sounds like you have no confidence with women and are just disguising it to us (or even yourself) as something being wrong with the women.

how about you get less shy and more confident and exuberant, while still being nice, and become the ultimate catch? instead of letting the assholes cut you in line!

 

[Sub-Zero]

Not for me...
I married the most outgoing, hottest, immodest, funnest, most popular guy I have ever known, and he's amazing and I love him. I don't want to have to be the one who draws someone out of their shell...Too much work, I would rather be able just to be myself and not worry about someone's shyness.
I'm no shrinking violet either, but in comparison he is the least shy between the two of us.

its easy to be confident when you cheat regularly on your spouse.

goodluck in divorce court

 

[trex74]

its easy to be confident when you cheat regularly on your spouse.

goodluck in divorce court

oh stop projecting

 

[miplank]

its easy to be confident when you cheat regularly on your spouse.

goodluck in divorce court

lol

 

[TC2]

Bro...stop dating white women...seriously I was the exact same way as you. I'm a good looking Guy
..have no problems getting attractive women...but cannot stand the immaturity and bullshit. Met my wife who is Croatian/Hispanic and never even looked at another white woman again. Its fucking night and day...no drama no bullshit ...the better you treat them the better they treat you...as it fucking should be.

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