Unattractive men do get the hotties

[blueta2]

Women don't even know what they want themselves, so they experiment with different things in the search for "happiness." Eventually, they'll find it, or get so depressed they'll kill themselves.

Say "some women" not all, cause I don't!
I know what I want, just not sure how to get it

 

[samoth]

I just always figured, pretty women were just sick of the aholes and decided to give the "average" guy a try and the average guy is romantic and tries harder and wins her over?! Am I wrong or is all about the schlong!

To be fair,

Arguing with abstract terms like ahole, average, romantic, etc. will only yield responses relative to the individual. You are seeking a dispositive response when none exists.

HTH

 

[cuthroat]

Getting them is way easier then keeping them.

who would want to keep one though? I am a firm believer in catch and release. You'll get tired of EVERY girl no matter how hot and freaky in time...for every dime out there, there is also some dude thats tired of hitting that.

 

[samoth]

who would want to keep one though? I am a firm believer in catch and release. You'll get tired of EVERY girl no matter how hot and freaky in time...for every dime out there, there is also some dude thats tired of hitting that.

Not all of us are whores, dawg.

 

[iggy]

I agree with AF. the connection is the most important thing in a relationship. that's why relationships based solely on sex won't end up working out in the end.

But, I also think that it's crucial that there is some type of physical attraction. Inner beauty's more important for me though.

Maybe those girls are on to something if they're happy blueta. That's all that matters in the end really.... being happy....

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

The receptionist at the clinic where I apprentice looks just like Megan Fox, no wait, HOTTER than her. She has D boobs and is stunning.
When I met her, I imagined she had a super hot husband.
I come out of the office the other day and there is this geeky short, overweight guy with a HUGE nose flirting with her, and I was like "yeah dude, keep dreaming"
She says to me "Blue, I want you to meet my husband"

Gulp, no way!

The doctor I work with is also a hot blonde with huge boobs and her boyfriend is short, hairy, has bad teeth, and is chubby.
But these women are happy as can be. That'll teach me to be superficial!

These men send them flowers and are super romantic.
Do unattractive men just try harder?

That's Canada though. That shit doesn't fly here in the U.S.Eh.

 

[javaguru]

Fun story....talked to a beautiful girl at the bar many years ago...Her husband went to see a man about a horse. My impertinent friend Rick asked what she was doing with such an ugly guy (he was more diplomatic). She responded, "He treats me well and I know he won't cheat on me."

Over the years, I wish I had a dollar for every chick that had a cheatin story where her man cheated on her hawtiness with a bridge troll.

 

[SPEKTOR-AAA]

Women don't even know what they want themselves, so they experiment with different things in the search for "happiness." Eventually, they'll find it, or get so depressed they'll kill themselves.

I dont think we as guys know what we want either. We want the 9/10 smoking hot women but typically there are things attached to wimmenz good looks (not always). We dont like the "baggage" that comes along with them. Hence the term hit it and quit it, catch and release, etc. We are not dogs/whores we just know what battles to fight. Certainly not that one.

These dimes deal with things most of us will never understand, im sure some of you ladies can chime in here. Things such as a constanting getting hit on, nonstop stares, uglier chicks/dudes with preconceived notions about who and what they are about. They are stereotyped and must live a life that follows the standards of being gorgeous. Hence the very discussion about who and what they choose in a signifcant other. If they deviate from the "norm" everyone questions them as if they are some creature without feelings. All of these pressures seem to add a element of insecurity, frustrations, maybe even confusion on what they actually want in general.

 

[DannoMight]

Like java said it boils down to them getting cheated on by an attractive guy at some point. So they settle for less looks but secure relationship with little chance of infedelity by the guy. Plus the smeagol will be eating out of their palm as long as they wish.

 

[uamaverick]

But wouldn't that suck to be the ugly guy and know that deep down inside, she really doesn't want to fuck you? I mean even if you eventually got the girl because her previous dbag BF cheated on her, I just don't think that would be satisfying as the guy. Can you truly love somebody romantically if you don't find them attractive?