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Then why get married ? You many as well save the money from the wedding and divorce... lol
Swinger lifestyle can it Last long term ???
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Then why get married ? You many as well save the money from the wedding and divorce... lol
All good replies.However I would think that the swinger couple would be much happier in the long-run As the sex is awlays the first thing to go in a realtion-ship then communcation comes into play and its over.
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rediculus
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sex never went in my marriage..I skipped right past that and went straight for the jugular. That still doesn't give a reason to be married. Who wants to be married to the "woman of the town" if she's not yours then don't pay for her. Marriage means monogamy. 2 people dedicated to each other.
I know guys that don't care how many men their wives sleep with. 2 percent of the time it works..Why? I don't know I personally prefer sex to mean something in a relationship. But if sex doesn't mean anything to you..your safer just screwing who you want when you want and leave alimony to other guys to pay. And use a condome.
I know guys that don't care how many men their wives sleep with. 2 percent of the time it works..Why? I don't know I personally prefer sex to mean something in a relationship. But if sex doesn't mean anything to you..your safer just screwing who you want when you want and leave alimony to other guys to pay. And use a condome.
I've known a bunch of couples that it worked for, the key seems to be that they both feel exactly the same way...more often than not one is way more ito it than the other, thats where the problems seem to come from....not to mention many people get into it for the wrong reasons...either its for you or it isnt
rediculus
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I've had too much experience. I admit freely that my sexual experience has become a thing of embarrassment when it comes to meeting good women. I don't mean some 15 dollar an hour high school graduate that fucks on command.You can train a puppy to do that shit. I mean driven successful independent woman that will bring more to your life.
Perhaps I am old fashioned but I don't think fucking outside of marriage makes it stronger. Swingers to me are 2 people terrified of true commitment that get along fantastically as friends. At the end of the day neither of them will enjoy the benefits of putting themselves out there for a real relationship. True commitment!
And your damn right that shit has an odometer. If your not doing exercises....After the 2nd time of having sex I can tell how much they have loosened up. It will come back a little but stretch or tear them a couple times from drunk sex...that shit doesn't come back without a little work.
Perhaps I am old fashioned but I don't think fucking outside of marriage makes it stronger. Swingers to me are 2 people terrified of true commitment that get along fantastically as friends. At the end of the day neither of them will enjoy the benefits of putting themselves out there for a real relationship. True commitment!
And your damn right that shit has an odometer. If your not doing exercises....After the 2nd time of having sex I can tell how much they have loosened up. It will come back a little but stretch or tear them a couple times from drunk sex...that shit doesn't come back without a little work.
rediculus
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I have 3 kids and I can tell you a 9 lb baby boy will change the way a vagina feels.
We may lie and say Damn baby it's as tight as ever. And at the opening near the clitoris with the honeymoon stitch it really is.
Inside the actual vaginal canal is never the same. I was married have 3 kids..I have had sex with young women old women no kids 5 kids...Oh we will lie and tell you it feels like an 18 year old cheerleader in there. It doesn't. Does it feel good? shit ya it does or I'd be railing your sister. Nobody has proven anything about my opinion incorrect. Other than swingers are people afraid of commitment and afraid of growing old. OR bored as hell..which works short term then they think. OH WTF no this is not working and typically change the lifestyle or divorce. The latter being more prevalent.
PS I am all for you guys not having guns and all for other people having abortions...I've met people that I would pay for a post birth abortion.
We may lie and say Damn baby it's as tight as ever. And at the opening near the clitoris with the honeymoon stitch it really is.
Inside the actual vaginal canal is never the same. I was married have 3 kids..I have had sex with young women old women no kids 5 kids...Oh we will lie and tell you it feels like an 18 year old cheerleader in there. It doesn't. Does it feel good? shit ya it does or I'd be railing your sister. Nobody has proven anything about my opinion incorrect. Other than swingers are people afraid of commitment and afraid of growing old. OR bored as hell..which works short term then they think. OH WTF no this is not working and typically change the lifestyle or divorce. The latter being more prevalent.
PS I am all for you guys not having guns and all for other people having abortions...I've met people that I would pay for a post birth abortion.
cmiii
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Well, it depends on the couple and their strenght of the relationship and their likes and dislikes. The problem comes when people think it is cool or they think is something to be done in order to find empty self satisfaction.
It is very simple though, just like everything in life you have to be very secure in yourself and know 100% that you will take great satisfaction in sharing such an intimate part of your lives with others. Both partners must love and trust 100% or else there will always be someone else whom they have shared that will come in between your love and trust causing problems in the relationship.
It is very simple though, just like everything in life you have to be very secure in yourself and know 100% that you will take great satisfaction in sharing such an intimate part of your lives with others. Both partners must love and trust 100% or else there will always be someone else whom they have shared that will come in between your love and trust causing problems in the relationship.
Colonel Ingus
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I've been on the fringe of a few couples that participate in "the lifestyle". Just from my view outside looking in, they all have some problems that arise from the activities in which they participate. Let me give a few examples:
With one couple, the guy would always be talking about how hot the women were that he would be with at the parties that they went to. I could see that this made his wife uncomfortable. He set up meetings for her with other guys, but I got the feeling that inside, she was hurt by the fact that he thought all those other women were where his desires went.
Also knew of a guy that claimed to be a swinger, along with his wife, but she didn't want to do it anymore. They separated, but came back together, and he claimed that she knows he still swings. Funny thing though, he has a few girlfriends that he will only see away from home, and they can't call him at home, and they know he's trying (supposedly) to get things back on track with his wife.
Finally, know a woman that has been involved with a few "lifestyle guys" but only on a one-on-one basis. She's had a FMF threesome or two, and liked it, but was always the third in those instances. She really wants to settle back into a more traditional relationship, and maybe do some exploration with her guy once they get to that point. Her other guys kept encouraging her to do that, but they also keep trying to set up dates with her again so they don't lose their access to her pussy.
Bottom line for me is that in just about all of these situations, people are never really what they seem, and there is a constant flow of lies and backstabbing going on. It seems more about control and manipulation than sex, and although some like to be controlled and manipulated, that person's partner is often the one that is being kept in the dark. Now if you can keep it casual, and move on to different partners before the possessiveness starts, maybe it could work, but there is always that question of whether you are doing it for fun, or to find something that is missing from your primary relationship.
With one couple, the guy would always be talking about how hot the women were that he would be with at the parties that they went to. I could see that this made his wife uncomfortable. He set up meetings for her with other guys, but I got the feeling that inside, she was hurt by the fact that he thought all those other women were where his desires went.
Also knew of a guy that claimed to be a swinger, along with his wife, but she didn't want to do it anymore. They separated, but came back together, and he claimed that she knows he still swings. Funny thing though, he has a few girlfriends that he will only see away from home, and they can't call him at home, and they know he's trying (supposedly) to get things back on track with his wife.
Finally, know a woman that has been involved with a few "lifestyle guys" but only on a one-on-one basis. She's had a FMF threesome or two, and liked it, but was always the third in those instances. She really wants to settle back into a more traditional relationship, and maybe do some exploration with her guy once they get to that point. Her other guys kept encouraging her to do that, but they also keep trying to set up dates with her again so they don't lose their access to her pussy.
Bottom line for me is that in just about all of these situations, people are never really what they seem, and there is a constant flow of lies and backstabbing going on. It seems more about control and manipulation than sex, and although some like to be controlled and manipulated, that person's partner is often the one that is being kept in the dark. Now if you can keep it casual, and move on to different partners before the possessiveness starts, maybe it could work, but there is always that question of whether you are doing it for fun, or to find something that is missing from your primary relationship.
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