So This is Why I havent been around...

[smaretick]

Sorry to hear about your troubles...hope things get better for you.

 

[~Lexy~]

1. she's a lying whore. This affair has been going on behind your back for quite some time now, and it is NOT new.

2. you can do better

3. go to NoMarriage dot com. American women are lying, cheating, scandilous whores. They get rewarded for cheating (divorce settlement) and their role models are paris hilton and "desperate housewives". No wonder divorce is at record highs, and the women here suck.

Not all American women are whores, I will pretend you made a spelling mistake this time.

 

[DIVISION]

I agree with many points which you have raised in your post but I would not rule out a reconciliation between him and his wife. He shouldn't give up on the relationship so easily.

I frankly don't care whether you agree with my points or not. I'm here to give him advice from a male's perspective on women and why they do what they do. She cheated and I think it's best he moves on.

Once a woman cheats, in my eyes she's tainted. I'd never get back with a woman who cheated on me. I just can't see her the same way again, either emotionally or physically......once another guy's pounded her, I don't consider her mine anymore.

That's just the way it is.






DIV

 

[DiamondCutCows]

I frankly don't care whether you agree with my points or not. I'm here to give him advice from a male's perspective on women and why they do what they do. She cheated and I think it's best he moves on.

Once a woman cheats, in my eyes she's tainted. I'd never get back with a woman who cheated on me. I just can't see her the same way again, either emotionally or physically......once another guy's pounded her, I don't consider her mine anymore.

That's just the way it is.






DIV

It hurts, but I think I agree.

 

[~Lexy~]

I frankly don't care whether you agree with my points or not. I'm here to give him advice from a male's perspective on women and why they do what they do. She cheated and I think it's best he moves on.

DIV

I am sorry but why so defensive about me agreeing with you? It is only a conversation and my post was not meant to be personally against anyone. Take a step back and reflect at your tone of writing please especially in this situation.
You have some anger issues inside of you and you need to adjust them to the appropriate person, time and place. Now lets start again: (me extanding hand)
-Hi I am Lexy, thanks for the green dots! and you are?

 

[DIVISION]

It hurts, but I think I agree.

.....and it will hurt for some time to come, CowCutter.

As you said before, you've got no problem attracting women, so I say go with it and just spend some time having fun with various women.

Being single is not so bad, bro. You have unlimited freedom and you can date as many women as you want.

This relationship as you knew it is over, it's been over for some time now, just that you were the last to know.







DIV

 

[mendo]

I agree with many points which you have raised in your post but I would not rule out a reconciliation between him and his wife. He shouldn't give up on the relationship so easily. In his situation I would go and talk to the guy who is making a move on his wife. Alert him to back off. There is a huge possibility that he doesn't know she is married.

Sure, this other dude should never have gone there...and should be made to see that. But fuck em - thats not the real problem here...its 100% the wife. Shes a backstabber, and I agree with DIV...there is no future with her...no trust...its over.

I lived through this same situation the Xmass before last, and I can tell you first hand...things will look up bro! Just focus on yourself and have fun for awhile, and stay positive during the hard times. Don't give anyone your heart till you'reready...and you know they are. I ended up a much stronger person after I had been through that. I see things differently now...and my only regret is the wasted time (6 years).

Peace.

 

[DIVISION]

Sure, this other dude should never have gone there...and should be made to see that. But fuck em - thats not the real problem here...its 100% the wife. Shes a backstabber, and I agree with DIV...there is no future with her...no trust...its over.

I lived through this same situation the Xmass before last, and I can tell you first hand...things will look up bro! Just focus on yourself and have fun for awhile, and stay positive during the hard times. Don't give anyone your heart till you'reready...and you know they are. I ended up a much stronger person after I had been through that. I see things differently now...and my only regret is the wasted time (6 years).

Peace.

eh Mendocito,

The thing I don't understand is how guys don't see the warning signs until it's too late? Six years in your case is a long time to know someone in a relationship and not see subtle changes in behaviour.

Explain.




DIV

 

[mendo]

eh Mendocito,

The thing I don't understand is how guys don't see the warning signs until it's too late? Six years in your case is a long time to know someone in a relationship and not see subtle changes in behaviour.

Explain.




DIV

Yep...that was one of my lessons. The changes came a couple months before the main events...but I was naive and blinded by an immature love. I guess I knew something was changing...but my eyes weren't truly open...not yet.

 

[Pamela]

Here's my take on this, CowCutter.....


Anytime a woman cheats it's because she not being fullfilled in some way in her relationship. In this case, she feels that this guy at her work can give her something that you are not giving her.
DIV

I agree with Div on this point.