So This is Why I havent been around...

[DIVISION]

Yep...that was one of my lessons. The changes came a couple months before the main events...but I was naive and blinded by an immature love. I guess I knew something was changing...but my eyes weren't truly open...not yet.

I think most guys don't have high enough standards with women they are looking at as "marriage material".

Some women just aren't the type you should marry, and it comes across in their behaviour and attitude. These things aren't really hard to read if you know what to look for.

Every guy has to have standards when it comes to women.





DIV

 

[DiamondCutCows]

I agree with Div on this point.

In our case, the only thing she doesnt get from me is a slap in the face. She is treated like gold by me.

Maybe she wants to be treated badly, who knows. Who cares. I just cant wait till I walk in my house and dont have an empty feeling.

I walk in and Im like "what now." Usually it would be "Hey Jess, wanna get a movie on-demand with dinner?"

Now its just me and Sportscenter...

My friends girl thinks I should be alone for a bit to "let my heart/nead heal" Any thoughts on that???

 

[mendo]

I think most guys don't have high enough standards with women they are looking at as "marriage material".

Some women just aren't the type you should marry, and it comes across in their behaviour and attitude. These things aren't really hard to read if you know what to look for.

Every guy has to have standards when it comes to women.





DIV

I agree. I also think age has alot to do with it. Not a persons biological age...but their mental age...where they're at in their head. Many women become more stable and honest as they get older and realize what they want long term. ...though not all by any means.

 

[mendo]

In our case, the only thing she doesnt get from me is a slap in the face. She is treated like gold by me.

Maybe she wants to be treated badly, who knows. Who cares. I just cant wait till I walk in my house and dont have an empty feeling.

I walk in and Im like "what now." Usually it would be "Hey Jess, wanna get a movie on-demand with dinner?"

Now its just me and Sportscenter...

My friends girl thinks I should be alone for a bit to "let my heart/nead heal" Any thoughts on that???

I hope this makes sense, but that empty feeling is all in your head bro. You don't need a woman to fill it. After years in a relationship...then a year with some shitty roomates...I wanted an empty house. Now I just like to have friends over or bring a date home...thats it for awhile for me.

 

[DiamondCutCows]

I agree. I also think age has alot to do with it. Not a persons biological age...but their mental age...where they're at in their head. Many women become more stable and honest as they get older and realize what they want long term. ...though not all by any means.

Sounds about right.

My mental age must be 30ish because I love married life the way it was before. Im a great husband and cant till I find a WOMAN who appreciates the fact that I pride myself on treating women greatly.

Though, it'll probably be quite a while before I give my heart away again

 

[nutsnack]

best way to get over an old girl .... get a new one

there's millions out there and that one obviously ain't for you so keep your head up and get another one!

 

[DIVISION]

I agree. I also think age has alot to do with it. Not a persons biological age...but their mental age...where they're at in their head. Many women become more stable and honest as they get older and realize what they want long term. ...though not all by any means.

That goes along with what I said about women in their 20's not being mature enough for marriage. In my experience, women in their 20's are still in "play mode" where everything is still a game without consequences. I think women in their 30's are stable and able to know what they want, thus it's easier to deal with them and have a level of mutual understanding.

That said, you then have the problem of whether you want a woman in her 30's if you are in your 20's......it's a trade-off. It all depends on how picky you are.



DIV

 

[mendo]

That goes along with what I said about women in their 20's not being mature enough for marriage. In my experience, women in their 20's are still in "play mode" where everything is still a game without consequences. I think women in their 30's are stable and able to know what they want, thus it's easier to deal with them and have a level of mutual understanding.

That said, you then have the problem of whether you want a woman in her 30's if you are in your 20's......it's a trade-off. It all depends on how picky you are.



DIV

Most definately. Although we are talking about relationships...and DCC...I think what you need right now is GIRLS. Maybe 2 or 3 of em... Just for fun.

 

[DiamondCutCows]

For some reason Im thinking "Wow life really is funny"


I really believed me and her would grow together, have kids move to FL or Dallas and happilly ever after.

I guess I'll take Dennis Leary's quote for real now!

"Life is hard, get a helmet"

 

[DIVISION]

I think what you need right now is GIRLS. Maybe 2 or 3 of em... Just for fun.

Exactly.

I think it's time for CowCutter to flip the switch to "MashMode".......

It's time for him to crush some serious gutz.....

Balls Deep.






DIV