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She flirts, then blows me off. ???wtf LADIES HELP!

Maybe I can get some advice from some of the ladies here.

Scenario:
I just started summer school about 2 weeks ago, and was perfectly content with being alone. A hot girl started smiling at me and speaking to me, then she went out of her way to start a conversation with me on 2 different occasions, last for over an hour. *EDIT* I forgot to add to this earlier...at the end of the conversation after we had talked for 1hour. She asked if I had lab later, and I said yeah tonight at six, and he said ' darn' and walked off. (keep in mind this is the only reason I asked her out a second time. *end EDIT*

So I thought all the signs were there, and I asked her to lunch one day, she said that she was having lunch with one of her friends and then going shopping.
We continued to chat for the next 4 days on and off, until today.

I was sitting outside and she stopped to talk to me, We chatted for a few minutes, She said that she was having trouble with class, and I asked if she wanted to study... She proceded to say that she was going to study with one of her friends. Then made a comment about lost she is on the class material, then walked away.

So, I'm thinking I should cut my losses. And try to get back to where I'm not thinking about her all the time. It would have been easier if she would have given me a defininte NO.

What's going on? Try to be very critial, and skeptical b/c keep in mind I might be spinning this story in my favor.
 
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It sounds to me like you got the wrong vibes!! I know it may sound weird but maybe she was just talking with you as a friend. I talk to guys and don't mean anything more than just a conversation and I know sometimes they think there may be more to it. I'd say just keep chatting as friends and let it slide!! I've been there, actually alot and it still happens to me. I just like to BS. I think men just assume because a girl is attractive somethings there if she talks to him. It's not always the case!! Move on!!
 
Read what I added in the original post when I *EDIT*ed.

she walked across the entire classroom, to ask me, if she could copy my lab results off of me, instead of the other 25 people in the class.

Don't you think it's kinda her fault?
 
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Well yeah, she is really giving off the wrong impression. Maybe she likes to tease you!! There are woman like that out there.
 
makalauna said:
Well yeah, she is really giving off the wrong impression. Maybe she likes to tease you!! There are woman like that out there.



I agree with makalauna.

Best thing to do is just act like she doesn't mean that much to you.

If you ignore her, she will come around if she's interested.

Pamela ;)
 
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