Sex and Relationships

[Slapaho]

This is mostly for the guys but I want you girls to share your thoughts as well.
Here are my questions:

Do you have sex with two or three partners (not all together) on a regular basis and if so what is the nature of your relationships?

Are you guys okay with dating a woman and having sex with her while she is also dating and having sex with one or two other guys?

If you are having these kind of relationships how long do they normally last? For example if you are seeing and talking to a girl almost daily, sleeping with her once or twice a week for six months or so, have a genuine friendship, are you okay with her doing the same with someone else on the nights you aren't around???

 

[Rex]

My relationships consist of mostly one night stands.

The girls I do commit to I commit solely to and don't go looking for other tail. I don't burn bridges though. I expect the same.

 

[Smurfy]

Im not into casual sex.

ALso, T minus 1 minute to BTS.

 

[Slapaho]

But how many times do you have sex with someone before committment of some sort comes into play??? I'm asking because I have several friends who have these ongoing "non committed" relationships but none of them work so well and I am thinking that even though the guys involved say they are cool with it, it is the reason the guys keep giving these girls the boot.

I have been married for so long that I wouldn't know what to do with a random peice of ass....

 

[PBR]

when you get older, in the 30's and later, i find that women are more open to this....they have usually been thru alot of crap, (this includes mens ideals also) and they can be extremely wary of committed relationships....they tend to "play" and stay more to the single side of life until they meet the right person....this search narrows as time goes on, and becomes more difficult to find someone to be soley committed to....each to his/her own, but it is common and the time line varies of course....

 

[help4john]

I have been married for so long that I wouldn't know what to do with a random peice of ass....

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Are you recently separated or divorced? Or are you adding additional women to your marriage?

 

[Gambino]

you posted the same exact thread at iron trybe

 

[Puddles]

I've been married for 20 yrs. and it was strictly monogamous up until a few years ago. We were and would be again, quite happy that way, but we also like to enjoy the company of another girl from time to time, I'm bi and he's a typically horny guy so this works out great. Our girlfriends are single and we know they date others.

One girl really enjoys being with other couples mostly and she tells me tales of her escapades and I enjoy hearing how happy she is. Right now another couple she is dating is her ex-husband and his wife. We're all getting together in Vegas soon plus a few other single girls...it's gonna be interesting! This girl is awesome both as a friend and a lover.

Another girl we see has only dated other guys, I'm the only girl she's been with. She's one of my best friends and I'm hoping she finds a guy to settle down with because that's what she really wants. I know once that happens we won't have sex with her anymore and we'll miss that, but we want to see her happy.

At one time we were in a committed relationship (she was the one who said she wanted the commitment and we both cared about her so we agreed) with a woman who was going through a divorce, her husband was already out of the house. That relationship became too complicated and she was a scheeming, lying bitch. She claimed not to be dating anyone else but we found out otherwise. Lying is something we can't tollerate, and we knew she didn't practice safe sex. She was dumped. She begged and pleaded for forgiveness but we'd seen her lie to too many others and we knew she couldn't be trusted.

If you're going to fool around with more than one partner, truthfulness and safe sex practices are extremely important.

My husband and I do not hook up with other girls seperately, it's a 3-some when we're in the bedroom. There have been a few times when I've been busy and he's been with our friends for a little while, but that's with my knowledge in advance (like we're having a party and he gets a quickie while I'm in another room) and he gives me the same opportunities.

Our relationships with our girlfriends have lasted anywhere from just a few months to a year or more. We have a good time and it's hard to find friends who are trustworthy, so once we find one, we like to keep them as long as we can.

 

[Mandinka2]

you posted the same exact thread at iron trybe

yup I feel kinda like someone has been foolin around my back too.

 

[Robert Jan]

Im not into casual sex.

ALso, T minus 1 minute to BTS.

Surveys show heterosexual women are far less into casual sex than heterosexual men hey....

In fact, they have less sex altogether.

Funny, innit?

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Im curious puddles.. if yuo wanted to be with another man.. would your husband consent?

 

[newpump]

I've been married for 20 yrs. and it was strictly monogamous up until a few years ago. We were and would be again, quite happy that way, but we also like to enjoy the company of another girl from time to time, I'm bi and he's a typically horny guy so this works out great. Our girlfriends are single and we know they date others.

One girl really enjoys being with other couples mostly and she tells me tales of her escapades and I enjoy hearing how happy she is. Right now another couple she is dating is her ex-husband and his wife. We're all getting together in Vegas soon plus a few other single girls...it's gonna be interesting! This girl is awesome both as a friend and a lover.

Another girl we see has only dated other guys, I'm the only girl she's been with. She's one of my best friends and I'm hoping she finds a guy to settle down with because that's what she really wants. I know once that happens we won't have sex with her anymore and we'll miss that, but we want to see her happy.

At one time we were in a committed relationship (she was the one who said she wanted the commitment and we both cared about her so we agreed) with a woman who was going through a divorce, her husband was already out of the house. That relationship became too complicated and she was a scheeming, lying bitch. She claimed not to be dating anyone else but we found out otherwise. Lying is something we can't tollerate, and we knew she didn't practice safe sex. She was dumped. She begged and pleaded for forgiveness but we'd seen her lie to too many others and we knew she couldn't be trusted.

If you're going to fool around with more than one partner, truthfulness and safe sex practices are extremely important.

My husband and I do not hook up with other girls seperately, it's a 3-some when we're in the bedroom. There have been a few times when I've been busy and he's been with our friends for a little while, but that's with my knowledge in advance (like we're having a party and he gets a quickie while I'm in another room) and he gives me the same opportunities.

Our relationships with our girlfriends have lasted anywhere from just a few months to a year or more. We have a good time and it's hard to find friends who are trustworthy, so once we find one, we like to keep them as long as we can.

THAT is hot. Puddles, your man is a luck one all right!

 

[coverguy]

i've been in that situation before. i was seeing and sleeping with 3 different girls (they knew i wasn't with them exclusively) and only 1 of them was sleeping with someone else (at least on a regular basis.) (we were all pretty open.)

it was weird when i first found out she was sleeping with someone else on a regular basis. because i was too, however, i didn't lose too much sleep over it. her and i got along great and had some pretty awesome sex. what was great, was that each of the three was a significant change from the other two, even in bed. this kept things really interesting and allowed me to really enjoy it. i broke up with the one girl because i got a little tired of her. the second girl (one sleeping with someone else) gave me the ultimatum of g/f or nothing a few weeks later, so i ditched her and then i stayed with the one for a while and actually dated just her for almost a month ... before i started seeing someone else too.

 

[Puddles]

Im curious puddles.. if yuo wanted to be with another man.. would your husband consent?

He's normally very possessive, but recently he's talked about this and is open to the idea. I'm the one saying no. Who knows what the future will bring but right now I'm very content with him alone or him and another girl (or two).

 

[DIVISION]

I've been married for 20 yrs. and it was strictly monogamous up until a few years ago. We were and would be again, quite happy that way, but we also like to enjoy the company of another girl from time to time, I'm bi and he's a typically horny guy so this works out great. Our girlfriends are single and we know they date others.

One girl really enjoys being with other couples mostly and she tells me tales of her escapades and I enjoy hearing how happy she is. Right now another couple she is dating is her ex-husband and his wife. We're all getting together in Vegas soon plus a few other single girls...it's gonna be interesting! This girl is awesome both as a friend and a lover.

Another girl we see has only dated other guys, I'm the only girl she's been with. She's one of my best friends and I'm hoping she finds a guy to settle down with because that's what she really wants. I know once that happens we won't have sex with her anymore and we'll miss that, but we want to see her happy.

At one time we were in a committed relationship (she was the one who said she wanted the commitment and we both cared about her so we agreed) with a woman who was going through a divorce, her husband was already out of the house. That relationship became too complicated and she was a scheeming, lying bitch. She claimed not to be dating anyone else but we found out otherwise. Lying is something we can't tollerate, and we knew she didn't practice safe sex. She was dumped. She begged and pleaded for forgiveness but we'd seen her lie to too many others and we knew she couldn't be trusted.

If you're going to fool around with more than one partner, truthfulness and safe sex practices are extremely important.

My husband and I do not hook up with other girls seperately, it's a 3-some when we're in the bedroom. There have been a few times when I've been busy and he's been with our friends for a little while, but that's with my knowledge in advance (like we're having a party and he gets a quickie while I'm in another room) and he gives me the same opportunities.

Our relationships with our girlfriends have lasted anywhere from just a few months to a year or more. We have a good time and it's hard to find friends who are trustworthy, so once we find one, we like to keep them as long as we can.

Now that's fucking TRUST.

I hope to have a relationship like that eventually; DAMNNNNNNN!


DIV

 

[Gymgurl]

Division....want to get married? lol

 

[reknball]

I'm the type who doesn't mind sharing my girl with another girl, I just couldn't handle the guy's. Honesty is always the best policy, it may hurt at times, but it's the right thing to do. My soon to be Ex wife was bi, and I loved the few extra's we encountered. But then it turned to drugs and sex behind my back. We tried to make it work, but mentally, I couldn't handle it. Safe, casual sex is great, as long as everyone is open and honest. If relationships come out of it, great, but friendships, I find, last a lot longer.