I'm slowly coming to this realization too... all this time I've been fretting over the damned BF% numbers... when if all truth be told, the numbers don't mean shit, what really matters is how you perceive yourself to look.
I'd be happy to start bulking just now, however, the only that has kept me away from it is that the friggin BF machine still has me at 20%... Little by little I'm starting to care less about it and thinking on doing what looks right