playing tonight!

[Gambino]

She is on birth control, and we use condoms when swinging. When we decide to have children (welcome to the modern world...you can now have sex for recreatoin instead of procreation) we will of course take a break from these activities.

Ah, no you are engineered to ogle every female you see... that is the genetic wiring of men in order to ensure their seed is spread far and wide, and most psychologists and biologist agree. You are TAUGHT by popular culture to be jelous of your chosen mate. Now, as any psychologist will tell you, learned behavior is no less real. Once a certain belief or behavior is learned and you are conditioned to it, unlearning it can be rather difficult.

just so you know, condoms don't stop herpes or genital warts...just some food for thought

 

[CrazyK]

She is on birth control, and we use condoms when swinging. When we decide to have children (welcome to the modern world...you can now have sex for recreatoin instead of procreation) we will of course take a break from these activities.

Ah, no you are engineered to ogle every female you see... that is the genetic wiring of men in order to ensure their seed is spread far and wide, and most psychologists and biologist agree. You are TAUGHT by popular culture to be jelous of your chosen mate. Now, as any psychologist will tell you, learned behavior is no less real. Once a certain belief or behavior is learned and you are conditioned to it, unlearning it can be rather difficult.

Yeah, but see that's what seperates us from animals, we don't just go on instinct, we think.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Yeah, but see that's what seperates us from animals, we don't just go on instinct, we think.

No you respond as you have been conditioned to respond. Even animals do that.

 

[Agathe]

were u sexually abused as a kid, I know people who have turned into sluts because of that.

that lifestyle is shit by the way but to each of his own

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I guess the fact that both of us have an extensive sexual history with many partners, we just do not view sex as something intimate or restricted to special people. It is purely an act of pleasure.

Sure, but not your fucking wife, man.
*covers face with hands*
If she had many sex partners, why didn't you just continue to fuck her, fuck other women, and go with the flow?
You're saying sex is sex, I guess, till you made that walk down a church...
Why the marriage? OMG, your talking about having kids with this girl.
Is it gonna be your child....or the mailman's, or bob; the neighbor with the red trans-am down the street, maybe your long last brother from Fiji.

 

[Pamela]

You two must have a very Strong Relationship.

Glad to see you both posting again!

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Sure, but not your fucking wife, man.
*covers face with hands*
If she had many sex partners, why didn't you just continue to fuck her, fuck other women, and go with the flow?
You're saying sex is sex, I guess, till you made that walk down a church...
Why the marriage? OMG, your talking about having kids with this girl.
Is it gonna be your child....or the mailman's, or bob; the neighbor with the red trans-am down the street, maybe your long last brother from Fiji.

Again, the swinging is something we do for fun, and we do not play alone, with the exceptoin of her and other girls. When we decide we want children, and she is not on birth control obviously we are not going to be doing this.

Yes we were married in a church. We got married because we love each other and wanted to make a public display of it. We already considered ourselves married when we promised to stay with and love each other the rest of our lives. 60% of first marriages fail in this country. One must ask why those people bothered to get married as well. To us a marriage is about a commitment to stay with each other, love each other and to place the needs of ther other beyond those of any other person. It is not about sex. We have a great sex life, and the swinging thing is only something we do once every two or three weeks. We enjoy it, and it is fun to us. We live out any sexual fantasy we have, rather that just keep them buried away in our minds and masterbate while thinking about them like most people do. More importantly, we do it together.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Again, the swinging is something we do for fun, and we do not play alone, with the exceptoin of her and other girls. When we decide we want children, and she is not on birth control obviously we are not going to be doing this.

Yes we were married in a church. We got married because we love each other and wanted to make a public display of it. We already considered ourselves married when we promised to stay with and love each other the rest of our lives. 60% of first marriages fail in this country. One must ask why those people bothered to get married as well. To us a marriage is about a commitment to stay with each other, love each other and to place the needs of ther other beyond those of any other person. It is not about sex. We have a great sex life, and the swinging thing is only something we do once every two or three weeks. We enjoy it, and it is fun to us. We live out any sexual fantasy we have, rather that just keep them buried away in our minds and masterbate while thinking about them like most people do. More importantly, we do it together.

In a way it makes the private sessions even more special.
No visualizing, Tom Cruise, or Penelope Cruz or whatever.
Helps you appreciate seeing your S.O. through someone elses eyes.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Again, the swinging is something we do for fun, and we do not play alone, with the exceptoin of her and other girls. When we decide we want children, and she is not on birth control obviously we are not going to be doing this.

Yes we were married in a church. We got married because we love each other and wanted to make a public display of it. We already considered ourselves married when we promised to stay with and love each other the rest of our lives. 60% of first marriages fail in this country. One must ask why those people bothered to get married as well. To us a marriage is about a commitment to stay with each other, love each other and to place the needs of ther other beyond those of any other person. It is not about sex. We have a great sex life, and the swinging thing is only something we do once every two or three weeks. We enjoy it, and it is fun to us. We live out any sexual fantasy we have, rather that just keep them buried away in our minds and masterbate while thinking about them like most people do. More importantly, we do it together.

It's fine that you enjoy each other in that compacity, but I can't help but be amazed and shocked.

 

[Agathe]

not gonna answer my question?