Have been lifting for 3-4 years and am yet to hit current goals. I am 6' and 215 pounds. 21 year old male. 16.6% body fat. I am curious what a good percentage is at my size? When Im at my biggest I am unhappy with my fat as my build makes it nearly impossible to loose the pudge at the bottom of my abdomen. However, when I "cut" I usually just clean up my diet and end up getting comments about how "skinny" I am which is depressing to anyone who lifts regularly. My question is what is a good weight at my height and given my body type, what can I do to reach a happy medium. (having both size and flat stomach) I realize we are our biggest critics and I may never be fully satisfied but I am very depressed with where I am at right now and have been slacking due to my unsuccessful attempts at finding this happy medium. Also any dieting advice would be appreciated. and I seem to hold water because even when I grow my muscles seem soft rather than solid in the tricep area on my inner arm. Advice? I appreciate any and every response in advance.