My girlfriend is gaining weight

[Werd]

I could never understand women starving themselves to fit a wedding dress where the buttons are about to pop by the end of the reception. Makes zero sense to me.

I know that as a general rule MOST women do let themselves go long before the wedding and just pile on more pounds as the years go on with each child. But then again look at the men. Are they really any different? Shit, how many guys have bitch tits and fucking hang waaaaaay over their belts long by the 5th wedding anniversary? WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?!

I am living proof that there are ALWAYS exceptions to every rule. I looked like absolute shit before I was married and had kids. I had no clue about proper nutrition; was trapped in that whole eating disorder - yo-yo diet hell.

Anyone want to see my pics, just email me and I'll be happy to forward 'em to ya... I used to competitively bodybuild and fitness/swimwear model AFTER the age of 30 and AFTER I had several children.

 

[superspud]

once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow

italian girls are way bad at this :-/

 

[gonelifting]

Do you speak with this person? Then tell her you`d rather her be less heavy.

To those of you wondering if it will happen to you, TELL them that you want a physically fit girl. Then if/when you leave them, they won`t be surprised or will do something about it. You gotta draw the line somewhere on everything, we do it subconsiously with other matters in our lives, just voice your likes and dislikes. If your girl knows you well, then she`ll know you want a fit wife/girlfriend.

 

[Sigmund Roid]

The funny thing is they drop 50 pounds immediately when you leave them.

 

[bran987]

The funny thing is they drop 50 pounds immediately when you leave them.

and then want their next boyfriend to pay for plastic surgery to get rid of the 10 pounds of extra skin.

 

[hamstershaver]

The funny thing is they drop 50 pounds immediately when you leave them.

this is so they can trap their next victim

 

[The Greatest]

the first thing to go is the ass, which can be ok if you have a really skinny gal. You get trapped by the notion that a little meat on the butt will = Jennifer Lopez. But then your at the beach in the sun light and you notice the beginings of cottage cheese. The cellulite sticking to her ass like barnicals on a boat.

It's all down hill from here, you cannot tell her what has happened to her once wonderful ass without sleeping on the couch. Then its 1100 at night and while your are downing your final shake before bed with a little flax seed oil, she demands that your bring her the tub of ice cream. Hell has begun.

 

[PBR]

now that is not true for every woman. If she was never active to begin with then expecting her to become active in the future is not likely to happen. Usually women that have been involved in activites stay active compared to those who never did anything. Maybe don't put so much pressure on her or start to cook good for the both of you and you do the grocery shopping so she doesn't get to buy all the BS.

Absofuckinglutely....Ive seen alot of women who get themselves into shape because they are single, but you can tell at any moment they might explode, however, there are the ones who take care of themselves regardless of what is going on in their lives....not meaning any of us are in contest shape 7/365, but we dont throw the towel into the ring either....I must say tho, I have seen this happen so many times, its like you attend your friends wedding, and 6 months later you see them both shopping and your like....uh, and this is who?

 

[coverguy]

do something fun, maybe together....salsa? dancing is great! swimming? is she into yoga, and such? otherwise i hear sex too, is great

we should get together and explore this sex is great theory!

 

[benapollo]

have been with my g/f for 3 yrs now and i am more into the gym than ever, however she has let herself go a bit and it is getitng worse.

I have offered to go to the gym with her, help her out with diet etc etc.....
or do a hobby together but she just ain't interested even bought her new gym kits. the only thing she likes doing is shopping.

any more advice ladys as i ain't shallow but i just don't find her as sexy!

and be honest if your guy banged on 50lbs of fat would you want him as bad as you do now, would you? Be honest...

simply NO!!

It is hard subject to talk to her about she just goes in a mood and says i think she is fat, and if i want a 'thin bird' (her words) then to go out and get one.

I would prefere it if she turned to me and said honey not being funny but you are putting on a little wait. I would use it as inspiration to get my fat arse back to the gym lol.