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I didn't know where else to post this. My girlfriend, actually my fiance', has not been paying any attention to what she eats lately and has been putting on some weight as a result. I've been trying to get her to eat healthy and exercise. She wants to but just doesn't have any ambition for it. Does anybody have any ideas? Don't get me wrong, either. I love her the same regardless of anything and would never want to be with anyone else. I just wish she would give this subject just a little more attention. Some of us may not be willing to admit it, but physical attraction does play a part in every relationship. Some more than others, I admit, but there just the same. Still, any suggestions?
 
find an activity you can do together - tennis, walking, bikes. It may be boring to you but it beats waking up to find her at 250 lbs next summer. Consider it an investment in your relationship.
 
hamstershaver said:
once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow
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Often true, but not always....

I could never understand this phenomena myself.
 
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I think Dial Tone has a great idea....start doing things together to get active and eat better when you are together....it will start to rub off on her
 
Milo Hobgoblin said:
"once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow"

truer words ahve never been said.
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now that is not true for every woman. If she was never active to begin with then expecting her to become active in the future is not likely to happen. Usually women that have been involved in activites stay active compared to those who never did anything. Maybe don't put so much pressure on her or start to cook good for the both of you and you do the grocery shopping so she doesn't get to buy all the BS.
 
whoa! not all women would. credit some taken babes with some control for themselves, as they value their own self worth and health :rolleyes:.

despite what you may think, it's not all men men men that occupy our thoughts :)

do something fun, maybe together....salsa? dancing is great! swimming? is she into yoga, and such? otherwise i hear sex too, is great ;)
 
hamstershaver said:
its interesting how all the guys agree with me and all the women are defending the porkers
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it scares the shit out of me hammy
how do you get around this? I mean unless you are a guy who likes big women like you do?
 
Milo Hobgoblin said:
"once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow"

truer words ahve never been said.
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Wait a minute.....I have had 3 kids and have been married for 12 yrs....do I look that bad??? :worried:
 
Bran987 said:
it scares the shit out of me hammy
how do you get around this? I mean unless you are a guy who likes big women like you do?
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never get married because once you do you will never get sex again, which could be a good thing, and then they will average a 5-10lb weight gain per year until they reach the size where all they can wear is moo moos from lane bryant, and when you go to bed you will be able to see the indentation in the mattress from where their fat ass sleeps
 
Run now as fast as you can!

I had the same exact thing happen to me but I was married. My wife was hot and sexy but after 3 years of marriage she decide to eat a crappy diet and never stopped. My wife went from 5’4” 100 pounds to 150 pounds in two years. Needless to say she in now my ex-wife and fatter now then ever. I learned an expensive lesson, so run while you can! If you are young it will only get worse not better. She might improve for a short while but you have forever to watch her get fat and theirs a very high percentage chance she will fatten up with time. :worried:
 
Try putting her in a cage and only feeding her a low carb high protien diet. You could also put some clen in her coffee without her knowing. Yes I borrowed this idea from the guy who puts dbol in his gf's protien shake.
 
hamstershaver said:
its interesting how all the guys agree with me and all the women are defending the porkers
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you are right though, I have seen it happen too many times for it not
to be nearly fact that women do this. Women/girls simple just get to comfortable once they are in a long term relationship and let themselves go and stop paying attention to important things like their figure :)
 
I too have noticed that alot of women will start to slack in what they eat when they find a keeper. It's not all women though. I've had some that kept up with what they ate and stayed slim while some went off on BigMac's. All in all, it's how they think.

JMD, what's up with the avatar?? GO DAWGS!!!!
 
KayKo said:
I too have noticed that alot of women will start to slack in what they eat when they find a keeper. It's not all women though. I've had some that kept up with what they ate and stayed slim while some went off on BigMac's. All in all, it's how they think.

JMD, what's up with the avatar?? GO DAWGS!!!!
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Yes, I know it is football season and this time of year everyone in Georgia jumps ship since they win more games than Tech. They looked really
great in the first half against DIV 1-AA GSU scoring only 1 touchdown.
 
Badbart said:
Run now as fast as you can!

I had the same exact thing happen to me but I was married. My wife was hot and sexy but after 3 years of marriage she decide to eat a crappy diet and never stopped. My wife went from 5’4” 100 pounds to 150 pounds in two years. Needless to say she in now my ex-wife and fatter now then ever. I learned an expensive lesson, so run while you can! If you are young it will only get worse not better. She might improve for a short while but you have forever to watch her get fat and theirs a very high percentage chance she will fatten up with time. :worried:
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it never fails, remember orbs, NEVER put a ring on their finger
 
Not to sound shallow but if my girl stopped going to the gym and just began eating crap there is no way in hell I'd marry hear and that's real. Unlike many guys on this board I am not into stick figure women. I like curves and some muscle but there is no way in hell I'd walk down the aisle with a big fat cow. I'd to figure out what's going on with her by talking to her and let tell her how you feel. You need to leave if this is going to be a problem for you and if she's not going to do anything about it.
 
Lol @ Rj! :)
 
jubei said:
Try putting her in a cage and only feeding her a low carb high protien diet. You could also put some clen in her coffee without her knowing. Yes I borrowed this idea from the guy who puts dbol in his gf's protien shake.
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LMAO! I thought that morons words would die in his thread but K to you for so utilizing them in such perfect fashion!
 
I wasn't joking, cages work like a charm. And the clen coffee is not bad, here is the recipe:

Boiling Water, add:
Folgers Hazelnut Instant Coffee (1 tablespoon)
2 packets of equal or other low cal sweetener
30ml condensed skim milk
60mcg of clenbuterol (liquid)

Keep in mind that you will have to hide taurine in her iced tea every night or she'll get cramps and feel like shit, which of course you don't want. Just because she is in a cage doens't mean she has to feel bad.
 
You need to say something to her; say it delicately but say it now. My gf used to hit the treadmill 45-90 minutes/day every day til I moved in. Over the next 5 years she gained near 60 lbs. We broke up last year and although that actually had little to do with it, it sure didn't help swing things in her favor when she wanted to work it out.
 
I could never understand women starving themselves to fit a wedding dress where the buttons are about to pop by the end of the reception. Makes zero sense to me.

I know that as a general rule MOST women do let themselves go long before the wedding and just pile on more pounds as the years go on with each child. But then again look at the men. Are they really any different? Shit, how many guys have bitch tits and fucking hang waaaaaay over their belts long by the 5th wedding anniversary? WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?!

I am living proof that there are ALWAYS exceptions to every rule. I looked like absolute shit before I was married and had kids. I had no clue about proper nutrition; was trapped in that whole eating disorder - yo-yo diet hell.

Anyone want to see my pics, just email me and I'll be happy to forward 'em to ya... I used to competitively bodybuild and fitness/swimwear model AFTER the age of 30 and AFTER I had several children.
 
Do you speak with this person? Then tell her you`d rather her be less heavy.

To those of you wondering if it will happen to you, TELL them that you want a physically fit girl. Then if/when you leave them, they won`t be surprised or will do something about it. You gotta draw the line somewhere on everything, we do it subconsiously with other matters in our lives, just voice your likes and dislikes. If your girl knows you well, then she`ll know you want a fit wife/girlfriend.
 
Sigmund Roid said:
The funny thing is they drop 50 pounds immediately when you leave them.
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and then want their next boyfriend to pay for plastic surgery to get rid of the 10 pounds of extra skin.
 
the first thing to go is the ass, which can be ok if you have a really skinny gal. You get trapped by the notion that a little meat on the butt will = Jennifer Lopez. But then your at the beach in the sun light and you notice the beginings of cottage cheese. The cellulite sticking to her ass like barnicals on a boat.

It's all down hill from here, you cannot tell her what has happened to her once wonderful ass without sleeping on the couch. Then its 1100 at night and while your are downing your final shake before bed with a little flax seed oil, she demands that your bring her the tub of ice cream. Hell has begun.
 
mbrooke5 said:
now that is not true for every woman. If she was never active to begin with then expecting her to become active in the future is not likely to happen. Usually women that have been involved in activites stay active compared to those who never did anything. Maybe don't put so much pressure on her or start to cook good for the both of you and you do the grocery shopping so she doesn't get to buy all the BS.
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Absofuckinglutely....Ive seen alot of women who get themselves into shape because they are single, but you can tell at any moment they might explode, however, there are the ones who take care of themselves regardless of what is going on in their lives....not meaning any of us are in contest shape 7/365, but we dont throw the towel into the ring either....I must say tho, I have seen this happen so many times, its like you attend your friends wedding, and 6 months later you see them both shopping and your like....uh, and this is who?
 
brunette said:
do something fun, maybe together....salsa? dancing is great! swimming? is she into yoga, and such? otherwise i hear sex too, is great ;)
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we should get together and explore this sex is great theory!

:busy: :p
 
have been with my g/f for 3 yrs now and i am more into the gym than ever, however she has let herself go a bit and it is getitng worse.

I have offered to go to the gym with her, help her out with diet etc etc.....
or do a hobby together but she just ain't interested even bought her new gym kits. the only thing she likes doing is shopping.

any more advice ladys as i ain't shallow but i just don't find her as sexy!

and be honest if your guy banged on 50lbs of fat would you want him as bad as you do now, would you? Be honest...

simply NO!!

It is hard subject to talk to her about she just goes in a mood and says i think she is fat, and if i want a 'thin bird' (her words) then to go out and get one.

I would prefere it if she turned to me and said honey not being funny but you are putting on a little wait. I would use it as inspiration to get my fat arse back to the gym lol.
 
benapollo said:
have been with my g/f for 3 yrs now and i am more into the gym than ever, however she has let herself go a bit and it is getitng worse.

I have offered to go to the gym with her, help her out with diet etc etc.....
or do a hobby together but she just ain't interested even bought her new gym kits. the only thing she likes doing is shopping.

any more advice ladys as i ain't shallow but i just don't find her as sexy!

and be honest if your guy banged on 50lbs of fat would you want him as bad as you do now, would you? Be honest...

simply NO!!

It is hard subject to talk to her about she just goes in a mood and says i think she is fat, and if i want a 'thin bird' (her words) then to go out and get one.

I would prefere it if she turned to me and said honey not being funny but you are putting on a little wait. I would use it as inspiration to get my fat arse back to the gym lol.
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please tell me you dont lick her kitty, and wait a few more years she will put on another 50lbs easy
 
nah mate she hasn't put on 50lbs hahahaha....

would have to say honestly if she did a ultimatum would have to be given i am affraid. Lets be honest if you don't find her sexy any more what is the point you just become friends....

she has only put on some weight but it all and i mean all goes on stomach so it deosn't look good.
 
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