My girlfriend is gaining weight

[Swole_2112]

I didn't know where else to post this. My girlfriend, actually my fiance', has not been paying any attention to what she eats lately and has been putting on some weight as a result. I've been trying to get her to eat healthy and exercise. She wants to but just doesn't have any ambition for it. Does anybody have any ideas? Don't get me wrong, either. I love her the same regardless of anything and would never want to be with anyone else. I just wish she would give this subject just a little more attention. Some of us may not be willing to admit it, but physical attraction does play a part in every relationship. Some more than others, I admit, but there just the same. Still, any suggestions?

 

[Dial_tone]

find an activity you can do together - tennis, walking, bikes. It may be boring to you but it beats waking up to find her at 250 lbs next summer. Consider it an investment in your relationship.

 

[hamstershaver]

once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow

 

[Werd]

once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow

Often true, but not always....

I could never understand this phenomena myself.

 

[Gymgurl]

I think Dial Tone has a great idea....start doing things together to get active and eat better when you are together....it will start to rub off on her

 

[milo hobgoblin]

"once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow"

truer words ahve never been said.

 

[mbrooke5]

"once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow"

truer words ahve never been said.

now that is not true for every woman. If she was never active to begin with then expecting her to become active in the future is not likely to happen. Usually women that have been involved in activites stay active compared to those who never did anything. Maybe don't put so much pressure on her or start to cook good for the both of you and you do the grocery shopping so she doesn't get to buy all the BS.

 

[Sean Scott]

once a woman knows shes got the man she will eat like there is no tomorrow

exactly run man run, do you really think she'll get smaller.

 

[brunette]

whoa! not all women would. credit some taken babes with some control for themselves, as they value their own self worth and health .

despite what you may think, it's not all men men men that occupy our thoughts

do something fun, maybe together....salsa? dancing is great! swimming? is she into yoga, and such? otherwise i hear sex too, is great

 

[hamstershaver]

its interesting how all the guys agree with me and all the women are defending the porkers