Is 23 too young to marry?

[DannoMight]

depends on how much fun you've already had as well as her and if you know she is the one you can be with for a while or let her take more than half of your shit. i waited till i was 27. i had many years of fun before even getting into a serious relationship where marraige was even a thought. first you need a house or stabbin cabin for a few years so you can play and get it out of your system.

 

[*ebony*]

my parents got married pretty young and my momz was only 19. they're Still together and they dont hate each other. they're pretty chill peeps fo sho.

don't let people tell u there is a certain age for marriage. you are not them. i think you'll know when the time is right, when your ready to take the plunge.

 

[EnderJE]

Yes. 23 is too young. Marriage is also a bad idea.

Please search for nomarriage.com.

Thanks.

 

[OMEGA]

It can work if the two people don't have hidden issues that are not too problematic

 

[ponyfitness]

Personally if I could go back I wouldn't even have a serious relationship before 30 much less think about getting married.

I'm getting married in four weeks, but I'm 35.

 

[foreigngirl]

I got married at 23. You get married when you meet the right person and you both think its time. Having preconditions a la gladtiator.1937463 (house, nice car, etc) IMO isnt necessary. Getting married doesnt prevent or delay you from getting those.

totally agree with what 75 says too....old people in my country say that if you wait for everything to be "right" - it will never happen. I got married at 20 and we have a house without mortgage, 2 kids, my husband is working his way up and I am running my own business (with each others support).

The thing is not if you are too young or not - it depends on the character of the person. Some people are 40 and still act and thing immature.

 

[cindylou]

I dont think 23 is too young for a woman, maybe for a man - I got married at 23 because I wanted to have plenty of time to be married as a couple before I started having kids. I didnt want to have my first baby after I was only married for 6 months because I waited until I was 35 to get married. Its all a manner of opinion After 30 your chances of conceiving easily without help drop dramatically. That does not mean that you wont conceive without help, but it starts to take longer etc. After 34 you run the risk of down syndrome among other problems. It sucks but its life, it just is.

 

[75th]

I dont think 23 is too young for a woman, maybe for a man - I got married at 23 because I wanted to have plenty of time to be married as a couple before I started having kids. I didnt want to have my first baby after I was only married for 6 months because I waited until I was 35 to get married. Its all a manner of opinion After 30 your chances of conceiving easily without help drop dramatically. That does not mean that you wont conceive without help, but it starts to take longer etc. After 34 you run the risk of down syndrome among other problems. It sucks but its life, it just is.

 

[Oceano]

totally agree with what 75 says too....old people in my country say that if you wait for everything to be "right" - it will never happen. I got married at 20 and we have a house without mortgage, 2 kids, my husband is working his way up and I am running my own business (with each others support).

The thing is not if you are too young or not - it depends on the character of the person. Some people are 40 and still act and thing immature.

where's that? it's a good saying which applies to more than marriage I think.

 

[ceo]

by at least ten years, yes. Your friends will likely be divorced in 2-3 years.