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i think my gf has low libido
- Thread starter TheOak84
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well we decided to go tot he doc and get a blood test for her. i do plan on marrying her,
in the near future, but i wanna make sure this is not a problem, and hope shes just lazy in bed, which can be fixed.
but its like, if i had a dick problem id be at the doc in seconds, she seems not to care, or even know she has a problem.. maybe thats y its a silent (sexual) killer
in the near future, but i wanna make sure this is not a problem, and hope shes just lazy in bed, which can be fixed.
but its like, if i had a dick problem id be at the doc in seconds, she seems not to care, or even know she has a problem.. maybe thats y its a silent (sexual) killer
milo hobgoblin
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so exactly why are you still with her??
she's probably young and unsure of herself/insecure. she probably never had to take initiative in the sack before. she also probably isnt horny either so it doesnt really cross her mind to initiate sex. do you initiate sex when youre not horny or not thinking of sex? probably not. is her low drive normal? no. but there are probably many factors that are causing it. if she wants to make changes, she can. but, she may not really feel motivated to do so.
i didnt start becoming comfortable with myself or horny even until I went off the Deprovera shot and until I was into my 30's. Your girl sounds a lot like how I was for a long time but I was also with someone I couldnt stand and I was inactive and miserable for lots of reasons/
bottom line: there are infinite number of things that can have an effect on one's sex drive. also, dont take it personally and also, if you see it as a problem, simply talk to her about it but dont do it in a way that is accusatory or mean. Im guessing she's not just doing it to be a bitch, otherwise you would have mentioned that in the first post.
i didnt start becoming comfortable with myself or horny even until I went off the Deprovera shot and until I was into my 30's. Your girl sounds a lot like how I was for a long time but I was also with someone I couldnt stand and I was inactive and miserable for lots of reasons/
bottom line: there are infinite number of things that can have an effect on one's sex drive. also, dont take it personally and also, if you see it as a problem, simply talk to her about it but dont do it in a way that is accusatory or mean. Im guessing she's not just doing it to be a bitch, otherwise you would have mentioned that in the first post.
calveless wonder
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TheOak84 said:
Bingo....
being around someone 24/7 makes your precense completely different.
that's any girl.
Sounds like smothering.....If a chick sees you all the time and you guys have no real alone time, it's gonna kill the spark.
It's probably the same monotous shit 24/7. You did say she loves to go hang out with her friends...that's her escape.
i'm sure she cares for you but a big part of relationships is SPACE....as long as you trust each other, it's fine. no need to be on each other's ass 24/7
I work like 65-70 hours a week, but when i see my girl i make the most of our time together. we go out and have alot of fun or stay in on the weekdays but it doesnt get boring...and we've been together 3 years. It's like we're still "dating" but with all the comfort and closeness of being together for years
When we were around each other 24/7, we loved each other and acted fine..but it got monotonous and her sex drive took a dip. Can't really blame her...i felt similar
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