i think my gf has low libido

[TheOak84]

shes not very horny or erotic ever, shes kind of over weight and doesnt have a healthy diet and very lazy (for the most part).

her idea of fun is goin to a bar with her friends. not many contructive hobbies.

shes horny when drunk tho, and can have an orgasm easily. she takes birth control which may be an issue.

when we get naughty, she seems to forget i have a penis, and i have to do ALL the work, which includes: starting the foreplay, taking off both of our clothes, changing positions and such, etc...

maybe she just doesnt care about sex??? weve been dating for 3 years.

i think its a combo of excess fat, birth control nt enough exercise and a shitty diet.

any women have any input on this?

 

[biteme]

replace her.

 

[Gambino]

from what i gather, she's cheating on you

 

[eat big]

When you're doing her from behind, put it in her ass. See if that gets her.

 

[TheOak84]

from what i gather, she cheating on you

nah were around eachother 247, shes way to involved and sensititve to cheat

 

[theoak01]

since this is something thats been going on from the start it could be she is very conservative about sex or inexperienced.

my girl pretty much waits for me to do all the work,I dont get oral,that kinda shit.

her issue is she doesnt have much sexual experience and after talking to her she just wants to ease into new things not try it all at once.

maybe ask her whats up,talk to her about it

 

[TheOak84]

since this is something thats been going on from the start it could be she is very conservative about sex or inexperienced.

my girl pretty much waits for me to do all the work,I dont get oral,that kinda shit.

her issue is she doesnt have much sexual experience and after talking to her she just wants to ease into new things not try it all at once.

maybe ask her whats up,talk to her about it

thats what ive been thinking, but 3 years, she reads cosmo evrey thing, theres nothing to ease into, just do it, ya know... its sex, anything goes

 

[Gambino]

nah were around eachother 247, shes way to involved and sensititve to cheat

lol I'm just kiddin bor
standard ef answer for every girl question.

shall we be honest? i seriously doubt you will marry this broad...you just described a situation that is unfixable, it is her nature. if you marry her you will be unhappy and frustrated and will end up in divorce. so it's only a matter of time before you break up with her and i think you realize that

 

[theoak01]

thats my view on it,but some girls just arent like that,its hard for me as my ex was a god damn freak, kinda makes me feel like im missing out,but we do have alot of sex,it just isnt to freaky and i also gotta get it goin

 

[Gambino]

you should really ask aap about this, most of his ladies have a similar reaction