B'mom: I can't believe the "money part," but that's just me. I can believe you have repressed some feelings over time, and this might just be you "trying to rebel," per se. I'm not going to give you 'advice,' but I will say this...
1)If I am, in fact, "talking" to your ex-husband right, that's just sick. With modern technology, the truth will come out...
2)If I am, in fact, actually "talking" to you, then check yourself--everyone who's commented re: your kids is right...it'd be hard to convince a judge, if put on the stand, that two lesbians can raise a handful of girls...I, for one, don't think they *can/should* but that's another debate, for 'nother day, for sure...
3)Do what makes you happy, but don't do what makes you happy at the expense of anyone else, or just "for the sake of" being happy...
I don't know if any of that made sense...this is all a shock to me, and apparently, many others on here that have 'known' you for a while...
...in though, Blair $, '03!
1)If I am, in fact, "talking" to your ex-husband right, that's just sick. With modern technology, the truth will come out...
2)If I am, in fact, actually "talking" to you, then check yourself--everyone who's commented re: your kids is right...it'd be hard to convince a judge, if put on the stand, that two lesbians can raise a handful of girls...I, for one, don't think they *can/should* but that's another debate, for 'nother day, for sure...
3)Do what makes you happy, but don't do what makes you happy at the expense of anyone else, or just "for the sake of" being happy...
I don't know if any of that made sense...this is all a shock to me, and apparently, many others on here that have 'known' you for a while...
...in though, Blair $, '03!