Not at all --- I think Shadow & I are just stating the obvious. Sometimes you can never really plan everything perfectly or know what caused what. The most obvious thing is to only stick w/ food that you know is completely inert. But there are a thousand other things that can complicate things as well.
But to vel's point, Jen you have those 9-10 days and that bloat will most likely come down. You've seen the crazy changes that happen during this time. As tempting as it is, you can't really pre-panic because things will be changing on an hourly basis by the weekend. The bloat may not be an issue. Most likely (I"m hoping now that you are an 'experienced lady'..
) the stress level will be lower because you're an old hand at this now. That raw stress should be much less of an issue this time and more stress maybe on thinking of all the things you've learned since the last go around.
Its is very hard to make suggestions for the upcoming days because of the rate of change. As much as Fred was a POS, we did encourage you generally to follow through with this one trainer. It is valid to question to him why & what if, but it gets hairy if you try to take other suggestions as well. Unfortunately sometimes you get a sour experience. I just talked to a girl tonite at the gym who MOVED here to train w/ a particular trainer. And that trainer just bailed on her. How's that for a nice big fat fuckover? It can happen.
So anyway, again I'm going to continue to say work with the informaiton & the time you have with this trainer. Look at the diet for day before / day of, see if you see anything suspicious. Ask her if there's any place in there where things could happen. Have her look at you the night before. Have her look at you early morning of the show if possible. Hell, my trainer was checking on me every 2 hrs and even brought in Toney Freeman at 2 am. Prepare as much as possible, discuss contingencies for any issues and also try to identify any points where bloat or whatever could happen. Then you've prepared as much as you can. And just do it
Sometimes too much planning, preparing and analyzing can mess you up too. Monitor yourself. Take it a step at a time. And try to keep relaxed as well. Stress can make you hold weight too.
Hope that helps. Not trying to attack or blame. Its just a common situation that things don't always turn out so good. But you've got lots of support and lots of tools to take care of yourself when you aren't able to rely on someone else. But really push for those checks w/ the trainer esp early morning show day. Watch what you in the morning so nothing hits you the wrong way and just go hit the stage w/ all that hotness!
YOOOOOOOOOOUUUUU CANNN DOOOOOO EEEEEEET!