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I have been running field tests on male / female courtship interactions.

L_Seven said:
maybe because guys do the same thing- and that behaviour is no longer a "male-only" domain? :)
:rose:


This is more physiologically apparent in men though. Girls are instinctively supposed to be less promiscuous than guys, to protect their eggs, whereas men are more inclined to spread their seed, if you want to get that deep. Does all this go out the window when they start to drink?
Does today's society preempt biology? You could answer this just as easily as I could. :confused:
 
Bran987 said:
what does it mean when you're with a girl at a bar and she does this:

http://www.sunfyre.com/images/pix/113.jpg

would that be a 'signal'?


I always get a kick out of chicks who do stuff like this. You would never see a guy do it, because they know as well as girls that it doesn't sell. Guys get turned on by visual stimulation a lot more than girls. Do all of these girls think they will get ahead doing stunts like this, or is it a love affair with the camera? It seems more likely that they are barking up the wrong tree, especially in the sense of guys taking them seriously, like Big Rick Rock said above.
 
Lestat said:
BRR:

I got very discouraged with the club/bar scene about 3 years ago when I was in a stretch of singlehood and just got burned out.

I don't have a silver tongue, I can carry on a conversation with anyone, and I get plenty of looks, but when it comes to spitting game sometimes I just fall flat on my face when I am on the spot.

Put me in a different situation, something more relaxed and casual and I'm money all day and all night. At a club though I seem out of my element, the girls are fronting, the guys are trying to seem as desirable as possible. But like I said in my dumped thread, it seems so futile because out of all the girls in the club there are maybe 10% of them that'd I've even really consider dating.

Overally.. there has got to be a better way!

Oh one more thing.. I don't really care for dancing much. Guys who like to dance and who can dance well get 10 times more pussy in that environment.

As you can see, this is an interesting thread to me.


Lestat, you pretty much described me to a T as well.

And as for dancing, as long as you can hold your own, it's all good.

Now if you play guitar or piano, I would say that's an even greater advantage.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
write a book.....


Here is something I posted in a thread on the player's board. . .
Some dude suggested using a trick to getting a chick's phone number. So I responded with a few pointers...

My theories are not carved in stone and always open to debate.


Big Rick Rock said:
I do have to admit that the whole "trick" to getting a chick's cell phone number was pathetic. Unless a woman expressively gives me her number and asks to hear from me I won't call her. There is nothing more awkward than calling up a chick and having her ask “gonzo who?... from where? “ Fuck that, most people leave that stuff after Jr. High.



Here are some pointers.

-Women either find you attractive or they don’t.
While men might lower their standards during time of “drought”, women stay pretty consistent and are likely to hold out till they find a guy they like enough to sleep with.

-Even if you are an ugly Mofo you might be able to “grow” on them… But it won’t happen in a couple of hours at a noisy night club. You have to spend some serious time in the “friend zone” before your ugly ass gets some play from a hot bitch. She has to realize your ugly ass won’t stray because nobody else wants you. And she has to finaly grow tired of bagging handsome guys who treat them like shit cause they have too many options.

-Most of them will act a little bit “uninterested” even if they want to fuck you on the spot. They want you to at least TRY. Even if the pussy is yours when you said “hello”, she still wants to feel like you earned it. (Notice I said “a little bit uninterested” if she turns her back on you and walks away that usually a nice way of saying “piss off”)

-A girl looking for a relationship: If she is attracted to you, and interested: You can lose her in 1 second by saying something real stupid. If she likes you, and you have no game… keep your fucking mouth shut. It is better to sit in silence and appear ignorant than to open your mouth and confirm it. It is better to seem “quiet and mysterious” not “talkative and dumb”. Ok so you are a duffus and you want to go out with this gourgeous chick… Again, keep your fucking mouth shut as much as possible, be sweet, nice, caring and courtageous. She might overlook your peanut size brain for your gigantic heart.

-A girl just looking for a good time: If she is attracted to you: She does not care if your approach is corny or you don’t have 2 brain cells to make a spark. She will laugh at your stupid jokes and ignore you looking at her tits all night. She will wish you make a good enough effort of smoothing her into bed, makes her feel less guilty if it seems like you actually had to try.
WARNING: you can still fuck this up… You still have to appear Sane and never make her feel like the whole neighborhood is going to know you boned her. She needs to feel like you are a capable of having sex with her, respecting her in the morning, being nice, and staying the fuck out of her face when she wants you to. She also doesn’t want to feel like you are using her like a slut… yes deep down inside she might feel cheap for banging you dumb ass… but she needs to feel a certain level of comfort with you.
Even if she wants nothing more than dick from you, she might still call you every now and then just to “talk”, be nice, keep it light, short and friendly.
Never be a jerk or rub in her face how many other sluts you are banging. You might be too busy hitting random pussy to fit her into your rotation this week, But Never Tell Her That, tell her you are working and have too much to do, you’ll see her next week. Yes she only wants some dick and she probably knows you are fucking other chicks, but she doesn’t need to hear you tell her she is the “Monday Afternoon chick”.
The name of the game is: She knows what she is, you know what she is, but never talk about it. You will keep getting some poohtang till she decides she wants something serious and leaves your handsome ass for an ugly dude with a brain and a good job.


This may not apply to most women. I have come to some of these conclusions thru anecdotal experience and nothing more.
 
That is perfect BBR. It IS for ugly bros with no game though. There`s a whole other level for different folk. Not that I`m there... Just talking about past experiences. Sometimes the woman HAS to hear the truth. They want you more that way, SOMETIMES. Use your judgement of course. I don`t have to tell you. player...good post.
 
Lestat said:
BRR:

I got very discouraged with the club/bar scene about 3 years ago when I was in a stretch of singlehood and just got burned out.

I don't have a silver tongue, I can carry on a conversation with anyone, and I get plenty of looks, but when it comes to spitting game sometimes I just fall flat on my face when I am on the spot.

Put me in a different situation, something more relaxed and casual and I'm money all day and all night. At a club though I seem out of my element, the girls are fronting, the guys are trying to seem as desirable as possible. But like I said in my dumped thread, it seems so futile because out of all the girls in the club there are maybe 10% of them that'd I've even really consider dating.

Overally.. there has got to be a better way!

Oh one more thing.. I don't really care for dancing much. Guys who like to dance and who can dance well get 10 times more pussy in that environment.

You're too honest for this bullshit. you should try and find a new girl (if you are looking for something serious) through contacts and contacts of contacts.

Never miss a houseparty you got invited to.
 
Robert Jan said:
Never miss a houseparty you got invited to.

in my experiences, thats solid advice right there

in still pretty young compared to the rest here, but ive had a good number of girl friends/one night stands and the sort, and only very few times have i hooked up with a girl from a bar/club... and for the most part, the ones i did, its because they were sluts and initiated it. (not saying girls that initiate things are sluts by any means, but these particular ones were, and you could tell long before they talk to you)

parties on the other hand... by FAR the best way to meet women. Think about it, you're surrounded by friends (girls think you're popular), relaxed atmosphere (picking up girls is the only reason most guys go to clubs, but house parties are for hanging loose and chillin), and likely there will be drinks on hand, making icebreaking and what not all the easier. Theres just so many plus sides to these things, such as the likelihood of mutual friends, that really shifts the tables in your favour.

my mantra, however, is who fucking cares? enjoy life, with or without girls. many will come and go, but learn to enjoy being alone too.. you're your own best friend.
 
robert jan said:
Never miss a houseparty you got invited to.

Solid advice. If you have a wide enough network of contacts and a decent place nothing beats throwing a house party. If you can't get laid at your own party you're hopeless.
 
Big Rick Rock said:
You can't tell me some of you bros are really trying to talk to chicks at the night club... It can be done depending on the set up of the speakers at the night club, there are places(away from the dance floor) where you can talk if you get real close :D... For the most part it is better to get a phone# and follow up. Also getting some "air" and standing outside the place to chat can work well. Dancing is always a plus, I can dance Latin music and turn a bitch out getting down on some Reggea, this is an advantage when trying to smooth over latino mamies that don't want to hear about a dude with 2 left feet...
Again I will say: Get that number and follow up, once you feel out the prospect you can decide if you want to play ball for a little while or just go for the close.


I'd disagree, I think it's best to for it straight in the club. If you're on the dance floor say something like 'i cant hear you, lets go over there where its quieter'.

Or even say 'Lets go somewhere else, to get food or something". As long as you can isolate her i think the rest is just a matter of not fucking up.

If however this isn't possible then yeah just get her number.
 
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