Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Hello, was hoping for some help here. I've been married for 3 years. We used to have sex almost everyday no problem. but over the past year we have had sex like twice. I was hoping him going on steroids would fix the problem but it hasn't done anything except make him angrier. his test levels are in range, any suggestions?
Husband has low libido for past year
- Thread starter Haltars
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why are you asking us this? send him to the doctor to get bloodwork... steroids will make things worse.. that was a pretty ignorant recommendation if you gave him that idea...
It started bad and go worst. Get him off the gear and go see a doc
a doctor will not help you here. a marriage counselor is going to be someone to see.
i don't see this ending well though for you, never get into the habit in a relationship of not spending time with each other. i don't care how busy you are. almost dedicate a minimum of 2 hours a week of just 1 on 1 time. if you get into the habit of not doing this, that is when you go 1 week without sex, then it becomes 1 month then it becomes 1 year. i know people who have been married years who have had sex like 3 times total
there is also the possibility of him getting sexual satisfaction other ways like porn or other women/men. everyone always assumes in a sexless marriage the person has something hormonally wrong with them. in all my years this has NEVER been the case. but one party has the wishful thinking that it is hormonal and just running hormones will fix it
i don't see this ending well though for you, never get into the habit in a relationship of not spending time with each other. i don't care how busy you are. almost dedicate a minimum of 2 hours a week of just 1 on 1 time. if you get into the habit of not doing this, that is when you go 1 week without sex, then it becomes 1 month then it becomes 1 year. i know people who have been married years who have had sex like 3 times total
there is also the possibility of him getting sexual satisfaction other ways like porn or other women/men. everyone always assumes in a sexless marriage the person has something hormonally wrong with them. in all my years this has NEVER been the case. but one party has the wishful thinking that it is hormonal and just running hormones will fix it
Well I can say my issues was always ED started when I was 25 and I jus turned 32 on the 31st of August so I've had to use ED medication since 25 and I can say since having that medication I've never had and issue with anything and keep in mind when I went to a doctor everything was in range nothing was off or should have been causing my ED or libido issues so, it can be any. Umber of things
If he was suffering from low testosterone then the steroids would have made a big difference. Do you think it is more of a lack of desire or a lack of being able to perform? Maybe he is just stuck in a rut and you can try something a little "different" to make things fun.
His levels could be way off. Gear will fuck with your estrogen. When estrogen goes too low or too high, your sexusl desire and libido go out the window. Its also possible its mental but i would start with bloodwork. 9 times out of 10 thats where the problem lies, no matter male or female
