Flirting with girls at the gym, do's and don'ts

[Lill' Brian]

At the Golds Gym where I joing there are all kinds of hot honeys. I figure they don't want to be bothered cause they are lifting. Is there a good way to come on to one without making feel like a piece of meat?

 

[starfish]

I have always hated it when men hit on me while I was working out.

 

[caseynyc]

I asked a girl on a treadmill if she wanted a spot.... I don't recommend this approach

 

[Gambino]

when girls are squating I always spot them, even if they don't ask...it gives me a chance to grab their boobies...

 

[superqt4u2nv]

No good way to hit on them at the gym. I hate talking to people at the gym. Best bet is to hope you see them outside the gym then say hey don't you go to my gym. Other thing is if they ask you to spot them or notice the may need a spot offer.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

I third what starfish and SuperQT said... I always hate it when guys talk to me at the gym. Actually, I hate it when girls do too. I hate to be bothered at the gym. I am anti-social there

If they are wearing headphones, DON'T say anything to them unless they talk to you first. I really really really HATE when someone talks to me when I have headphones on.

Can always comment on an item of clothing - college shirt, local bar or event, vacation spot, etc. For example..."your shirt says Hawaii, have you been there? I've always wanted to go...." etc

You can chat on a piece of cardio equipment. This is the only time I don't mind talking to someone...it passes time, and if they get creepy, I can always change machines easily.

Chances are, you will crash and burn though....Sorry. Girls typically don't like being hit on at the gym.

 

[shakes]

i agree with the ladies.. i too hate to be bothered while training

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I don't get that "I want to be hit on" vibe from girls at the gym. Most of the ladies are right on this one, unless the girl is obviously gawking at you, or there to pick up a man (ei. dresses in extremely revieling gym clothes, but just plays around, doesn't really workout out, and stares at alot of guys). For the girls who are serious about working out, unless you have an impressive physique you will get knowhere. Even then, you have to play your cards veru carefully, and if they wear headphones your odds are around non-existant. The girls I've had sex with from the gym who actually workout regularly I met in class, at tanning salon ect and asked them "Do you work out at Gold's... I think I've seen you there?"

 

[IncestWhore]

I always want to flirt at girls at the gym, but sometime my wife is there and she seems to get mad when I flirt with her sister, so I don't think she'd like me flirting with girls I don't even know.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

all business @ the gym.......but the scenery is nice