fatmasterfat
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hey guys,
gonna keep this short.
I met this girl, got her number, called her, left a message, calls me back an hour later, says lets meet up right now to study (first mistake?)
ok so whatever i go to study cause i'm not very bright, get there, unbelievable chemistry, going great. go outside for some fresh air, sitting there everything is going good, "oh i love all this bonding" "whatever you want" type vibes comming from her mouth not mine.
dadadada, 5 minutes later my friends and my boyfriend.
ok wtf happened here.
I wasnt putting the game down, i was going against my insticts and you know trying to be a nice guy, we're at school not much i can do there.
so anyway studying is over, she says she'll call me tuesday...today...anyway i seen her the other day two days ago, and she just looked i dunno sad.
didnt really talk to her, thought she was actually gonna call.
i dont want to be in the friend zone, fucking study session, should i call her, or does this give her control in the supposed relationship...
i dont buy that i got rejected, just because i know when i get rejected, and this seemed forced...the boyfriend thing.
my instincts are to just go all out and fight for it, i'm really digging this girl. but at the same time i dont want to come across as needy.
i'm pretty fucking pissed at myself, normally i put the game down pretty thick, but for some reason i thought it would be better this way (you know having to see this person again in the future, know common people etc)
advice please.
edit : i really dont want it to come to this, but should i accept this unbelievable rejection and move on?
gonna keep this short.
I met this girl, got her number, called her, left a message, calls me back an hour later, says lets meet up right now to study (first mistake?)
ok so whatever i go to study cause i'm not very bright, get there, unbelievable chemistry, going great. go outside for some fresh air, sitting there everything is going good, "oh i love all this bonding" "whatever you want" type vibes comming from her mouth not mine.
dadadada, 5 minutes later my friends and my boyfriend.
ok wtf happened here.
I wasnt putting the game down, i was going against my insticts and you know trying to be a nice guy, we're at school not much i can do there.
so anyway studying is over, she says she'll call me tuesday...today...anyway i seen her the other day two days ago, and she just looked i dunno sad.
didnt really talk to her, thought she was actually gonna call.
i dont want to be in the friend zone, fucking study session, should i call her, or does this give her control in the supposed relationship...
i dont buy that i got rejected, just because i know when i get rejected, and this seemed forced...the boyfriend thing.
my instincts are to just go all out and fight for it, i'm really digging this girl. but at the same time i dont want to come across as needy.
i'm pretty fucking pissed at myself, normally i put the game down pretty thick, but for some reason i thought it would be better this way (you know having to see this person again in the future, know common people etc)
advice please.
edit : i really dont want it to come to this, but should i accept this unbelievable rejection and move on?
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