cuddled to death

[annabelletx]

ladies. . .

at night when you are sleeping next to your men (mostly bodybuilders and powerlifters) when they like to cuddle. . .

. . .have you ever felt like they were squeezing the life out of you because they want to hold you so close and they don't realize their own strenght. . .

. . .how do i get him to stop doing this? it really creates a problem for me since i have asthma and it constricts my lungs.

 

[mbrooke5]

ladies. . .

at night when you are sleeping next to your men (mostly bodybuilders and powerlifters) when they like to cuddle. . .

. . .have you ever felt like they were squeezing the life out of you because they want to hold you so close and they don't realize their own strenght. . .

. . .how do i get him to stop doing this? it really creates a problem for me since i have asthma and it constricts my lungs.

Oh Girl...I have this problem frequently...He'll thrown his arm over me on my neck and then I feel like I am going to die. I nicely KICK his leg til he wakes up or moves his hand. ANd when he puts his leg on my stomach I feel like I am about to give birth and I just frog him in his leg. And if that all doesn't work...find a not so nice way to wake him up or tell him he's suffocating you.

 

[annabelletx]

i have tried waking him, but he is so out of it when i do that he is just kinda like "huh, what, okay" and goes right back to sleep. and when i try to nudge him i usually wind up hurting myself.

men can't live with them, can't live without them


what is a girl to do?

 

[jenscats5]

Yeah, my hubby isn't very muscular but he is STRONG!! He'll sometimes squeeze me too hard. I try to get him to roll over so I can spoon him & put my arm around him....

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

I steal his covers or pillow. That wakes him up so I can tell him to stop crushing me. Sometimes that doesn't work so I kick him or I get up and sleep on the other side of the bed since he's always on my side squishing me.

 

[annabelletx]

I steal his covers or pillow. That wakes him up so I can tell him to stop crushing me. Sometimes that doesn't work so I kick him or I get up and sleep on the other side of the bed since he's always on my side squishing me.

can't steal the sheet from him since he hardly ever uses one and he takes up most of the bed. but maybe stealing his pillow would work.

 

[Werd]

Ummmmmm just go down on him till he stops.

Always worked for me!



(Actually - My ex was only 5'9" but a nat bber - got up to 200# at one point. Two bf's after him were 6'3" and 6'4" about 240-260# range. I am really small, even when I was my most muscular I was still small in comparison - 5'4" maxed out at 140#. I honestly never had this problem...)

 

[dirty~d~]

Just reach back and give the package a little tickle... they'll move.

 

[annabelletx]

good idea

 

[velvett]

I bought him a body pillow.