The simple fact is that Marriage has BENEFITS for both parties. There is also the downside BUT that is with EVERYTHING, not just marriage.
If a guy considers being STUCK with one PUSSY for all enternity a bad thing then PLEASE don't get married because if you do and you DO have kids and you do CHEAT you ARE going to get taken to the cleaners. PERIOD, END of story.
It's funny if you think about it, Women see men as having the better part of the relationship. Getting to go to work, socialise with ADULTS, have a career.
Men see women as having the better part, Getting to stay home, watch TV, talk on the phone, go to lunch with the girls, hang out.
The reality is quite a bit different for both parties.
Frankly, I think women have the shitty side of the deal and I consider myself damn lucky to be a man.
In any event, Marriage is NOT what sucks, Divorce SUCKS.
I'm sorry that things aren't going well for you Bikinimon.
I hope it gets better soon. Take care and hang in there.
The simple fact of the matter is, Men are morons and seldom realise how good we have it.