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35andfeel19
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I guess, for me, SEXUAL infidelity IS a Breach of TRUST as well as an EMOTIONAL infidelity.
An interesting observation that I have made in the past but does continue to prove true.
In situations of marrital or NON-marital infidelity women tend to be a hell-of-allot more forgiving than men. I'm not sure why and I'm sure that there are many exceptions to this rule but it has been MY observation.
I don't have a real good understanding of WHY this is the case.
Maybe someone could "Enlighten" me.
As far as I'm concerned, excuses like these are complete bullshit!!!
"He/She meant NOTHING to me" and
"I was Drunk and didn't know what I was doing" I really like this one. I don't know about the rest of the guys on this site but if I'm so drunk that I don't know what I'm doing, Mr Freindly goes on strike.
Like I said, I tend to be a bit of a "Hard Liner". Not for religeous reasons like LAWDAWG but simply because, I feel, infidelity demostrates a serious lack of respect and is a irrepairable breach of trust.
What is a relationship without Trust or Respect. Can Love even exist in an environment like that?
I know, A BUNCH of the "Bros" on this site are gonna be sayin. "Mann, that 35andfeel19 ain't a guy, He's a bitch pretending to be a guy" Believe me I know. Some of my closest longtime friends are women and there have been occasions where subjects like this and others come up. The typical response I get is. " You sound JUST like a woman".
"Monogamy is what I offer, I expect nothing less. If she isn't happy in the relationship, cut the bullshit, don't play games, be honest and move on.
Anyhoo, To each his/her own.
Ok, My soapbox is starting to get worn out. I'll stop.
An interesting observation that I have made in the past but does continue to prove true.
In situations of marrital or NON-marital infidelity women tend to be a hell-of-allot more forgiving than men. I'm not sure why and I'm sure that there are many exceptions to this rule but it has been MY observation.
I don't have a real good understanding of WHY this is the case.
Maybe someone could "Enlighten" me.
As far as I'm concerned, excuses like these are complete bullshit!!!
"He/She meant NOTHING to me" and
"I was Drunk and didn't know what I was doing" I really like this one. I don't know about the rest of the guys on this site but if I'm so drunk that I don't know what I'm doing, Mr Freindly goes on strike.
Like I said, I tend to be a bit of a "Hard Liner". Not for religeous reasons like LAWDAWG but simply because, I feel, infidelity demostrates a serious lack of respect and is a irrepairable breach of trust.
What is a relationship without Trust or Respect. Can Love even exist in an environment like that?
I know, A BUNCH of the "Bros" on this site are gonna be sayin. "Mann, that 35andfeel19 ain't a guy, He's a bitch pretending to be a guy" Believe me I know. Some of my closest longtime friends are women and there have been occasions where subjects like this and others come up. The typical response I get is. " You sound JUST like a woman".
"Monogamy is what I offer, I expect nothing less. If she isn't happy in the relationship, cut the bullshit, don't play games, be honest and move on.
Anyhoo, To each his/her own.
Ok, My soapbox is starting to get worn out. I'll stop.
