I get what your saying about the exersise side of your comment, and it makes sense. But, I would beg to differ on your comment about taking the advice of guys that can lift more than me. Too Many variables in why someone could be stronger than me. Just got home from the gym and watched everyone elses bench. Watched a huge dude do bench press really sloppy (IAW said videos in posts) and then go to to dumbell press and squirm around. Yes hes bigger and stronger than me, but i was nervous for him.
Gym advice I take with a grain of salt, Hence, me asking on here and doing some more research. Just cuz a guy is Jacked, doesnt make him wiser than me. IMO
I get it...just pick and choose and learn from everyone that you can. I get a lot of bench press advice from guys who bench 800+ on a regular basis and they get advice from me on the squat and deadlift (since I'm a pretty decent Squatter and Deadlifter). You have to make sure they can REALLY lift it to be stronger than you in a lift. Take advice, sift through it, find what works.