JDid23
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Ah yes your dad may be a problem. I have the same... well kinda, Im 14 and my parents would prefer me to go to the gym to "stay in shape" and "keep fit" rather than get bigger... Girls are startin to say Im a bit big any much bigger and I wont look nice too.
Maybe you could buy somthing like starting strength 2 which is a book my mark rippetoe (which I am about to buy too) then you could read through it with him, show him a page about mark if you have to so your dad knows he is the real deal. You could say somthing to him like "well dad I've thought about what you said and I think maybe a good idea would be to buy a book about teenagers weightlifting, one of the worlds most famous strength coached called mark rippetoe has recently wrote a new one called starting strength, what about if I bought that and we looked through it together" That is the sort of thing I would to but ultimately, if your dads mind is set then there is not much you can do to change it. Chances are PT's wont give the best advice either. Only option would be to lie to your dad about the weights your lifting but lying to parents is a nasty business and I never to it, once they find out you lie about something chances are they'll doubt other things you tell them and suspect things. My mum used to think I was on dope when I was 13 lol
As for dips, if the problem is fatigue then you could always use a plate loaded dip machine or an assisted dip machine, if it hurts your arms then maybe your form is off. Is it pain or muscle fatigue?
the idea about the book is an awesome idea... if he decides to follow through with asking the personal trainer i will definitely have to bring up the idea about the book.
the thing that would be annoying about the dips is that i can already do 3x8 without any assistance lol. however, i might have to leave my ego at the door and just do them assisted. I couldn't really tell if it was pain or fatigue (i think it was fatigue, not 100% though). i just wanted to be safe and not do the dips because it's only my 4th workout and i don't want to overdo anything.