Ummmm the guy would not be the one "doin the doin" - I would be.
And sorry, I am not into anal. My coochie is extremely tight and it does me just fine. Besides, when I get off the neighbors hold up scorecards, so why would you mess with that?
If he is skilled at lickinz and also knows how to properly wield his cock - we BOTH are attracted to each other but don't want anything that is intense and committed, what is the problem?