Why is it so hard to find a casual sex relationship?

[bluepeter]

Finding casual sex is not hard at all. The problem is that there simply are very few women out there like you who are very open and straightforward about what they want. Obviously, 90% of men would love to have the type of relationship you are describing.

A further problem you will encounter is that because men are so conditioned to the games women play and having to essentially 'audition' for their opportunities, they will be very wary of any woman who is not like this. I have known a few women who had attitudes similiar to what yours seems to be and they always complained that men were 'intimidated' by them. Bullshit. We just don't know how to react when a woman is actually up front and honest about wanting sex. We think it's a trick or a joke.

 

[Werd]

Finding casual sex is not hard at all. The problem is that there simply are very few women out there like you who are very open and straightforward about what they want. Obviously, 90% of men would love to have the type of relationship you are describing.

A further problem you will encounter is that because men are so conditioned to the games women play and having to essentially 'audition' for their opportunities, they will be very wary of any woman who is not like this. I have known a few women who had attitudes similiar to what yours seems to be and they always complained that men were 'intimidated' by them. Bullshit. We just don't know how to react when a woman is actually up front and honest about wanting sex. We think it's a trick or a joke.

The best response to date!

I appreciate your honesty and never would have thought that guys might be thinking this.

Forge - been there, done that to the married guy thing. It isn't something that I would do again. There were no children involved so I have no moral qualms about it. We are adults and were honest from the getco. However, after a while I lost interest. The guy was older and went to great lengths to protect his wife's feelings. But he said one thing to hurt my feelings and I cut him off accordingly.

The relationship worked well in that the sex was pretty decent. Minimal time investment. No BS. No feelings involved at all. We both knew what we were getting into. But in the back of my head I always did have this unsettling feeling: what if his wife ever decided to go psycho on me.

I don't need drama.

 

[the nature boy]

So in your ideal scenario, would you call up the guy and have him come over and do you and leave? how long would you guys be hanging out prior and after sex? what about sleeping over? more importantly, what about anal?

 

[bluepeter]

So in your ideal scenario, would you call up the guy and have him come over and do you and leave? how long would you guys be hanging out prior and after sex? what about sleeping over? more importantly, what about anal?

NB, your obsession with anal quite possibly surpasses my own but will probably never reach that of OMGBBGEIGH.

Bowelling for concubines?

 

[The_Ghost]

BigDawg - with you it would be waaaaaaaay more. You are too good a guy. Although, knowing what I know now about life, you might just be "the guy"

Awww shucks what a nice thing to say, thanks!

 

[the nature boy]

.....but will probably never reach that of OMGBBGEIGH.

yeah, that's pretty much impossible.

 

[Werd]

Ummmm the guy would not be the one "doin the doin" - I would be.

And sorry, I am not into anal. My coochie is extremely tight and it does me just fine. Besides, when I get off the neighbors hold up scorecards, so why would you mess with that?

If he is skilled at lickinz and also knows how to properly wield his cock - we BOTH are attracted to each other but don't want anything that is intense and committed, what is the problem?

 

[bluepeter]

Ummmm the guy would not be the one "doin the doin" - I would be.

And sorry, I am not into anal. My coochie is extremely tight and it does me just fine. Besides, when I get off the neighbors hold up scorecards, so why would you mess with that?

If he is skilled at lickinz and also knows how to properly wield his cock - we BOTH are attracted to each other but don't want anything that is intense and committed, what is the problem?

Absolutely nothing and if you ever move to Toronto, feel free to give me a ring and we can setup a schedule. I have absolutely no qualms about being a 'booty call'

 

[The_Ghost]

Ummmm the guy would not be the one "doin the doin" - I would be.

And sorry, I am not into anal. My coochie is extremely tight and it does me just fine. Besides, when I get off the neighbors hold up scorecards, so why would you mess with that?

If he is skilled at lickinz and also knows how to properly wield his cock - we BOTH are attracted to each other but don't want anything that is intense and committed, what is the problem?

absolutly no problem at all

Now when are you moving up to Canada

 

[bluepeter]

absolutly no problem at all

Now when are you moving up to Canada

Dawg, we hosers think too much alike