i have no idea either. I 'think' there needs to be some kind of physical association between the 2 of you before you start talking (ie same class, same friends, same work, etc) or they will reject you flat out. So that cuts me down to pretty much no options. Damn.
You still accepting fights Tuc? If your crippy ass is in indiana give me a ring, i took karate when i was 7.