What is it about reciprocity?

[Werd]

It must be karma for having gone through nearly all my adult life without proper attention being paid my kitty (and me not having the balls to demand it! LOL) but I have found that the guys who ARE BEST at given the kitty a proper lickenz will not allow a girl to return the favor in kind!

Please explain this to me guys... I am beginning to almost take it personally. I mean I have been told by the men who I clicked with best in bed (they were VERY unselfish lovers) that my skillz were unmatched, I mean I give pornstar head (for the right guy) and I do it gladly. But they would always rather eat me (regardless of the time of month) than to let me spoil them back or even to intercourse.

I want to understand the psychology behind it.

 

[*MissFit*]

I gotta agree with u. I think more guys r realizing the true power of a good job done on us, they're not as into their own pleasurement.. Beats me

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I'll gladly take his share

 

[hamstershaver]

somebody say karma?

 

[SoKlueles]

I actually agree, given the right person, you give him good head and he should return it with some kitty action.
even tho i dont get kitty action.. but thats how i feel

 

[hamstershaver]

I actually agree, given the right person, you give him good head and he should return it with some kitty action.
even tho i dont get kitty action.. but thats how i feel

maybe you dont give good head and thats why

 

[SoKlueles]

maybe i do
you moan enough

 

[Robert Jan]

Theres givers and receivers and few are good at both I suppose

 

[Werd]

I actually agree, given the right person, you give him good head and he should return it with some kitty action.
even tho i dont get kitty action.. but thats how i feel

No, no darlin'.... you misunderstood. He WONT let me go down!! All these men wanted to do was eat me!!! Not only that, but they would rather eat me, then even shtup!

I'm not complaining, I just dont understand it... I am soooooooo not complaining!!! (Especially because I was 34 years old THE FIRST TIME my kitty got anywhere near proper attention!)

...and I ALWAYS gladly and willingly went down on my exhusband. He NEVER had to ask for sex because his cock was in my mouth all the time! LOL

 

[Robert Jan]

I could not do without either. Getting head or giving it.

If I HAD to choose... I'd certainly choose doing without getting head

But it would hurt me a lot lol.