What is it about reciprocity?

[Werd]

It must be karma for having gone through nearly all my adult life without proper attention being paid my kitty (and me not having the balls to demand it! LOL) but I have found that the guys who ARE BEST at given the kitty a proper lickenz will not allow a girl to return the favor in kind!

Please explain this to me guys... I am beginning to almost take it personally. I mean I have been told by the men who I clicked with best in bed (they were VERY unselfish lovers) that my skillz were unmatched, I mean I give pornstar head (for the right guy) and I do it gladly. But they would always rather eat me (regardless of the time of month) than to let me spoil them back or even to intercourse.

I want to understand the psychology behind it.

 

[*MissFit*]

I gotta agree with u. I think more guys r realizing the true power of a good job done on us, they're not as into their own pleasurement.. Beats me

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I'll gladly take his share

 

[hamstershaver]

somebody say karma?

 

[SoKlueles]

I actually agree, given the right person, you give him good head and he should return it with some kitty action.
even tho i dont get kitty action.. but thats how i feel

 

[hamstershaver]

I actually agree, given the right person, you give him good head and he should return it with some kitty action.
even tho i dont get kitty action.. but thats how i feel

maybe you dont give good head and thats why

 

[SoKlueles]

maybe i do
you moan enough

 

[Robert Jan]

Theres givers and receivers and few are good at both I suppose

 

[Werd]

I actually agree, given the right person, you give him good head and he should return it with some kitty action.
even tho i dont get kitty action.. but thats how i feel

No, no darlin'.... you misunderstood. He WONT let me go down!! All these men wanted to do was eat me!!! Not only that, but they would rather eat me, then even shtup!

I'm not complaining, I just dont understand it... I am soooooooo not complaining!!! (Especially because I was 34 years old THE FIRST TIME my kitty got anywhere near proper attention!)

...and I ALWAYS gladly and willingly went down on my exhusband. He NEVER had to ask for sex because his cock was in my mouth all the time! LOL

 

[Robert Jan]

I could not do without either. Getting head or giving it.

If I HAD to choose... I'd certainly choose doing without getting head

But it would hurt me a lot lol.

 

[tiger88]

some reason i really want to have sex with werd eventhogh we/ve had our pissing matching in Chat (and no i dont flirt on internt or think about this stuff but id like to rock her world.. hey i am honest here

 

[Robert Jan]

yeah id like to do that too and im very young so that fills that vacant spot too

need money and time for plane trips though...

 

[Dirk Howat]

I have found that the guys who ARE BEST at given the kitty a proper lickenz will not allow a girl to return the favor in kind!

Its about cleanliness and physical beautiy.
From a guy's standpoint, if a girl has a tight ass, eats clean, no smoking or drugs, going oral is the best part. It elongates the sexual expierence for hours which is why girls love oral pleasure. A man can give out dozens of Os a day going oral but only a few banging away.

If a girl is fat, smokes and does drugs (well, I would never bang that, but if I did) what sane man would go oral.

Every guy should want his dick sucked and balls licked.

Yo.

I presume the same factors (looks and cleanliness) are involved with girls wanting to go oral on a man except power is involved. If a man has power and exudes it over a girl, she would want to go oral on him, f her in the ass, and cum on her face and titties.

This is why girls are attracted to "jerks and assholes" because they are ones that demonstrate their value to girls and thus have power over them. "Nice guys" are too much of a pussy to exude their power over women and thus women are not attracted to them.





From,

Your friendly neighborhood sex therapist.

Sincerely,



Dirk Diggler




Yo.

 

[Werd]

LOL at Tiger and Mr Jan... Yea, I bet you gents would rock my world indeed! hehehhehee

As for the nice guy thing. I wont 100% disagree.... that is why I am now a sucker for TOTAL nice guys. I have had it with jerks. The dudes that I have become involved with are all about making ME happy...

One dude even recently commented how in all his years of experience he has NEVER had the reaction from going down on a woman that he has gotten from me. (This has ALWAYS been my reaction since I have had the kitty properly handled.) While I can still verbalize the only words that come to mind are:

THANK YOU.

 

[tbuz67]

What happens after the guy goes down on you? I ask because after eating kitty for awhile I'm ready for some full-blown f*cking! Hell, that's why I'm eating the kitty in the first place. Why get head when I can get kitty instead? Don't get me wrong, head is good, but nothing compares to kitty.

 

[Robert Jan]

What happens after the guy goes down on you? I ask because after eating kitty for awhile I'm ready for some full-blown f*cking! Hell, that's why I'm eating the kitty in the first place. Why get head when I can get kitty instead? Don't get me wrong, head is good, but nothing compares to kitty.

Head is better than intercourse to me. Talking purely about how intense the orgasm is and how much enjoyment i get living up to it.

as for guys not wanting you to return the favour... they may be insecure about how they look down below. not really penis size but just penis in general and the whole area.

I personally.. have a gf who is tan and tight... can see her abs when she flexes and has a cute pussy that she keeps smooth and it all just looks nice and it doesnt seem fair to me she is to go down on my pale out of shape and hairy (well i keep the pubes away but my belly and legs are hairy) ass.

I know my gf luvs me though. Im comfortable with her. But should I have a one night stand now... i'd be kinda anxious about it I imagine.

Im not fat or anything. but i dont look like i workout either and im pale and hairy. I look like a normal guy without clothes on. Which is nasty, to me anyway. Then again thats what girls are for they have a weird taste.

 

[Werd]

What happens after the guy goes down on you? I ask because after eating kitty for awhile I'm ready for some full-blown f*cking! Hell, that's why I'm eating the kitty in the first place. Why get head when I can get kitty instead? Don't get me wrong, head is good, but nothing compares to kitty.

He doesn't even want to fuck... This has happened to me a few times. They mainly wanted to eat me.

Mr Jan... I think that these guys may have the same feelings you do. Makes sense, I guess on the one hand, but definitely NOT what is going through the girls' mind, I assure you!

 

[Robert Jan]

He doesn't even want to fuck... This has happened to me a few times. They mainly wanted to eat me.

Mr Jan... I think that these guys may have the same feelings you do. Makes sense, I guess on the one hand, but definitely NOT what is going through the girls' mind, I assure you!

I imagine if i looked really bad and some woman would still have sex with me I'd probably just get her off using my hands and mouth and feel incomfy about fucking her or having her blow me

Never seemed to bother Ron Jeremy though...