The Innocence of Childhood Destroyed!

[Crazier]

Maybe you should look into getting a program like NetNanny to prevent your child from accessing porn sites in the future.

http://www.software4parents.com/netnannyproduct.html

I should install that on my roommate's computer!!!

HumorMe... may they all grow up to be sweet little .
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[aurelius]

She's so damn sweet right now... thinks nothing is better than going to the park to fly a kite and feed ducks with her dad. Sadly, those days will one day come to an end. She keeps telling me 'I'm gonna be 5 forever daddy.' I could only wish, when I know the days of her teen years are just a mere 2,920 days away.

The way you people are talking it´s a miracle everyone doesn´t grow up to be a crack addict.

My point was that a number of parents think that "protecting" their kids from the evils of the real world often back fires. Children hear about 99.9% of the world from their parents before ever experiencing any of it. That map you give your children, if it strays far from reality, can lead to serious problems. I have plenty of friends who are living less than enviable lives as a result of this parenting based on "protecting the purity of the child" stuff.

Also, many parents fear that one false step, one wrong move, one penis viewing at age nine and their kids are one step closer to giving blow jobs to johns to score their next hit. It´s us against this unpure, unholy moralless, valueluss(whatever that means) world!!!!!!

 

[Crazier]

The way you people are talking it´s a miracle everyone doesn´t grow up to be a crack addict.

My point was that a number of parents think that "protecting" their kids from the evils of the real world often back fires. Children hear about 99.9% of the world from their parents before ever experiencing any of it. That map you give your children, if it strays far from reality, can lead to serious problems. I have plenty of friends who are living less than enviable lives as a result of this parenting based on "protecting the purity of the child" stuff.

Also, many parents fear that one false step, one wrong move, one penis viewing at age nine and their kids are one step closer to giving blow jobs to johns to score their next hit. It´s us against this unpure, unholy moralless, valueluss(whatever that means) world!!!!!!

Come back and speak to me when you have a child. Until then, I don't think I'm gonna try and contest the fact that a 9 year old shouldn't see a dick spitting cum all over a girl's face.
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[aurelius]

Come back and speak to me when you have a child. Until then, I don't think I'm gonna try and contest the fact that a 9 year old shouldn't see a dick spitting cum all over a girl's face.

Back to rhetoric class. You put calous words in my mouth and call me calous. I never said that´s what 9 year old girls (or boys) SHOULD be seeing.

My point was what I´ve already posted. Enough with the cop out "you don´t have kid" routine. I knew that would be the response by some here, wearing the halo of parenthood.

 

[HumorMe]

The way you people are talking it´s a miracle everyone doesn´t grow up to be a crack addict.

My point was that a number of parents think that "protecting" their kids from the evils of the real world often back fires. Children hear about 99.9% of the world from their parents before ever experiencing any of it. That map you give your children, if it strays far from reality, can lead to serious problems. I have plenty of friends who are living less than enviable lives as a result of this parenting based on "protecting the purity of the child" stuff.

Also, many parents fear that one false step, one wrong move, one penis viewing at age nine and their kids are one step closer to giving blow jobs to johns to score their next hit. It´s us against this unpure, unholy moralless, valueluss(whatever that means) world!!!!!!

arelius
I'm trying to follow your reasoning here but having a hard time. You still haven't answered the question about your age and you parenting skills. Protecting a child from the today's society freaks is a must. If you don't agree, then you obviously don't have kids. Kids do not have the ability to decide what is good or bad for them. That is why, as parents, we must guide them to making the right decisions. I don't want my child to experience a sheltered life but as long as I feel they are too young to know about these things then I will make their decisions for them. It is a parent's duty to do everything that they can to protect their children from these things. If you don't have kids, you just will not understand these things. I never understood them either until I had kids myself.

 

[HumorMe]

Back to rhetoric class. You put calous words in my mouth and call me calous. I never said that´s what 9 year old girls (or boys) SHOULD be seeing.

My point was what I´ve already posted. Enough with the cop out "you don´t have kid" routine. I knew that would be the response by some here, wearing the halo of parenthood.

Look at the website and tell me what you see. It's not just some oversized black cock like you stated earlier. Almost every damn picture there is moving in some form or fashion. Doesn't leave much to the imagination of a 9 year old as to what is going on! "Having no kids routine," is not a cop out. Parenthood is an honor. An honor that the good Lord has bestowed upon me. I'm not some Holy roller but I will always have an interest in my children's direction until the day I die. That's what being a parent is all about. One day you will understand or maybe not.

 

[casavant]

HumorMe, Crazier, serious question:

What specifically are you concerned will happen to your child if they are exposed to this stuff? Noone has really addressed this question yet.

 

[Crazier]

Back to rhetoric class. You put calous words in my mouth and call me calous. I never said that´s what 9 year old girls (or boys) SHOULD be seeing.

My point was what I´ve already posted. Enough with the cop out "you don´t have kid" routine. I knew that would be the response by some here, wearing the halo of parenthood.

Let me ask then aurelius... by reading your posts how was everyone able to come to the conclusion that you didn't have any kids???

"You don't have a kid" is not a cop out. You don't have a kid means that you don't have somone on this earth you care about more than yourself. A person you want the absolute best for. A person you are responsible for. A person you are obligated to teach right from wrong. A person that one day will go out into the real world, no longer flying under your wing... and all that will be left is the lesson's and moral's you managed to instill in your child's mind... and all you'll be able to do is hope you did well for them. Nothing you'll be able to control or change at that point.

We knew you didn't have a child, because if you did... quite simply, you wouldn't have written what you did. This subject is like trying to convice someone there is a God when they don't believe... it's nothing that can be explained. It has to be experienced in order to be understood.

So, again, come back and talk to me when you have a kid. I guarantee your view's will be much different at that time. Nothing against you... you just haven't experienced it. Therefore,
you know exactly shit on the subject matter my friend. You can't relate.
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[aurelius]

Protecting a child from the today's society freaks is a must.

Sorry, it´s just comments like these sound so "chicken little." Tone is difficult to extract from posts, but can you see how this could sound a bit like bunker mentality?

If you don't agree, then you obviously don't have kids.

So anyone who "disagrees" (what are we disagreeing about again?) doesn´t have kids? That´s ridiculous.

That is why, as parents, we must guide them to making the right decisions. I don't want my child to experience a sheltered life but as long as I feel they are too young to know about these things then I will make their decisions for them. It is a parent's duty to do everything that they can to protect their children from these things.

These words sound pure and true, but understand that in my experience with friends there are a number of parents who use these words as an excuse to fill them with their own prejudices and hold on with a white knuckle grip to their child´s life for far too long. Did you read my comment about the map?

I originally posted as response to your agitation over the porno viewing and although perhaps grotesque, I hardly think it has scared her for life. If something as trivial as that is capable of "destroying" a child, then you never had a prayer to begin with.

 

[Crazier]

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If something as trivial as that is capable of "destroying" a child, then you never had a prayer to begin with. [/B]

Well sure it doesn't mean she's gonna be sucking dick behind the monkey bar's now. (Sorry HumorMe.)

However, as HumorMe stated, when she is over at a friend's house... and recall's the sight, and the sight of what she saw... you don't think her and her 4th grade friends will be curious???

Sure they will be. So, they'll see fucking, fellatio, sucking, cumshots... all at age 9.

Before I go further and prove my 'possible scenario'... please let me know what you think of the above. Will they look?
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