Should a man have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion?

[cindylou]

Perhaps, but I don't think many people know the other persons stance on abortion prior to jumping in the sack.

Perhaps they should, but I don't think that's exactly the type of "pillow talk" most people are used to.
At any rate, the law, for better or worse, doesn't give the man any real say in this anyways. Which makes the hypothetical speculating a moot point.

yes; but as with anything you do ; the consequences are real and life is not fair. I dont see the law being able to give ANY man the right to stop a woman from doing what she wants with her body. Thats a right we have because we are the only ones carrying the baby. Its a shitty deal because I know its out of your control but its just the way it has to be.

A man who cant deal with that should be very very careful choosing someone to sleep with and probably should be having that type of "pillow talk".

 

[sardonicone]

yes; but as with anything you do ; the consequences are real and life is not fair. I dont see the law being able to give ANY man the right to stop a woman from doing what she wants with her body. Thats a right we have because we are the only ones carrying the baby. Its a shitty deal because I know its out of your control but its just the way it has to be.

A man who cant deal with that should be very very careful choosing someone to sleep with and probably should be having that type of "pillow talk".

You are only "carrying the baby" because of how we evolved. I suppose by that right then Women shouldn't be allowed to do labor intensive jobs or be in the military, since by design, they are inferior to men in that regards?

No, I don't buy into that either. It's not a females fault they are hard-wired differently, any more than it's a mans fault.

People that treat babies like some sort of virus they can just get rid of sicken me. I remember a co-worker of my wifes who couldn't wait to get her abortion so she could go tanning.

 

[cindylou]

You are only "carrying the baby" because of how we evolved. I suppose by that right then Women shouldn't be allowed to do labor intensive jobs or be in the military, since by design, they are inferior to men in that regards?

No, I don't buy into that either. It's not a females fault they are hard-wired differently, any more than it's a mans fault.

People that treat babies like some sort of virus they can just get rid of sicken me. I remember a co-worker of my wifes who couldn't wait to get her abortion so she could go tanning.

well fine dont buy into it ; that still does not change anything. I'm not saying that its fair or right or wrong. Does not change the fact and reality of the situation. There will never be a law for a man to have that kind of control over someone else's body. MAYBE one day a law that does not allow us to have an abortion AT ALL but never will there be a law that a single man can control a woman that way.

I understand and feel for the good men out there ; and understand WHY that behavior sickens you. You are a smart enough man I'm sure ; and not put yourself in that situation.

How would you enfoce such a law anyway?

How the hell are we inferior by design? I know many strong women in labor jobs who weigh more and have more muscle than some men I know. I'm not sure where you are going with that one! LOL

 

[CASS]

How the hell are we inferior by design? I know many strong women in labor jobs who weigh more and have more muscle than some men I know. I'm not sure where you are going with that one! LOL

yea lets not get into that one, it will only get me started again....

 

[SpyWizard]

Opinions?

he gets a choice before the child is born..

or

he gets 3 months when the kid is between 12-15 where he can kill the kid without any issues..

that sounds fair..

 

[Dial_tone]

Bitter? That is in your head alone.

I quoted Wulfgar and echoed his sentiments. Odd, I don't recall you metioning that he sounded bitter.

My point of view is actually quite logical and void of "feelings".

Damn, dude. She just totally exposed your hate. Ouch.

 

[cindylou]

yea lets not get into that one, it will only get me started again....

yeah ; I know I know. LOL. I'm too tired to get into anything anyway. Not today anyway! I'm killing time waiting for a question to be answered in the women's forum.

 

[cindylou]

he gets a choice before the child is born..

or

he gets 3 months when the kid is between 12-15 where he can kill the kid without any issues..

that sounds fair..

LOL. Fair enough.

 

[SpyWizard]

he gets a choice before the child is born..

or

he gets 3 months when the kid is between 12-15 where he can kill the kid without any issues..

that sounds fair..

like the kid comes home with a "D" in math, he's 14 yrs old, and gets stoned all the time..

convo like this

father "son, what's wrong?? a "D" in math, and you are polluting your body with this crap??? "

son "wow man, like get off my back, i'll do what i want to do"

father "maybe it was a mistake to keep you around this long'

son " i didn't ask to be born ya know"

father " i know son, but your mom and I are young enough to try again"


bam.. time to start over..

word will get around quick.. kids would straighten up fast..

 

[CASS]

Damn, dude. She just totally exposed your hate. Ouch.

LOL! the problem with speed reading.