Should a man have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion?

[CASS]

ok, well im happy for you.

my point is what do you think he would do or say if you made that choice and he had no say or part in it at all.

Yes I am very happily married to the most wonderful man on the planet. He posts here on occasion to. His handle is Grumpy Old Man.

What is your point?

 

[Bikini Mod]

ok, i kinda read the thread quickly and jumped on it from what you said.

this arguement really gets me fired up because i feel very strongly about my side of the arguement.

now there are alot of wankers out there that would leave the women on her own, those cases are fine but theres alot of good blokes out there, thats the cases im fired up about

Apology accepted. I feel for those men that would make stellar fathers but think about it like this. Why would a man WANT a mother that doesnt WANT his child... for HIS child? Would it not be better for that man's child to have a different mother?

As far as the mother is concerned if she truly wants that baby and no connection to the man because he truly does not want or care for THAT BABY (not about the mother here) then she should have the right to make him terminate his parental rights and not get a dime in material support from him.

It is a very fair proposition.

 

[musclemom]

I need to stay the fuck out of these threads, seriously.

As I said:

I have major, major issues with men screwing around in female reproductive rights, period.

And ALSO:

HOWEVER, I don't think ANYBODY, male or female, should ever be saddled with an unwanted child. I think there wouldn't be quite so many "accidental" pregnancies if guys had an ironclad way to say, DIDN'T WANT IT, DON'T WANT IT, AIN'T PAYING FOR IT.

A woman should NEVER be forced to undergo a pregnancy she doesn't want, even if the man wants the baby. She's still the one whose body is getting screwed up, and she's the one who risks her life.

A man should never be forced to pay for a child he doesn't want. I know there's cunts out there who rope men in with pregnancy and they see kids as 18 years of steady income. Fucking bitches should be shot.

I'm so outta here and someone remind me to stay the hell out of these threads in the future

 

[H_T_]

because of Affirmitive action, the DFD is required to hire people that are not qualified for the job. they can't pass the written or physical tests, but yet, still must be hired....how sad, when someone will lose their life because someone wants their way.....

 

[CASS]

right ive clamed down somewhat now.

Breathe in,
Breathe out. LOL!

agreed with what you said, i guess i was taking it form my point of view (as in been married for quite a while etc etc), if my wife did that and i didn't have a say or my say didn't matter i would be very upset and angry (in an upset way, not an annoyed way). yes the women goes through it all and has the problems and issues that arise from it, i guess i get wound up because of the lack of equal rights in asmuch as a joint choice.

not sure if that makes sense or not?

Apology accepted. I feel for those men that would make stellar fathers but think about it like this. Why would a man WANT a mother that doesnt WANT his child... for HIS child? Would it not be better for that man's child to have a different mother?

As far as the mother is concerned if she truly wants that baby and no connection to the man because he truly does not want or care for THAT BABY (not about the mother here) then she should have the right to make him terminate his parental rights and not get a dime in material support from him.

It is a very fair proposition.

 

[H_T_]

life ain't nuthin' but bitches and money. -Eazy E.

 

[Bikini Mod]

because of Affirmitive action, the DFD is required to hire people that are not qualified for the job. they can't pass the written or physical tests, but yet, still must be hired....how sad, when someone will lose their life because someone wants their way.....

Ummmm didn't you stray just *a tiny* bit off topic?

But what do I know, like MM I am *just* a female. LOL

 

[CASS]

I need to stay the fuck out of these threads, seriously.

Originally Posted by musclemom
I have major, major issues with men screwing around in female reproductive rights, period.

fine i have major major issues when fathers rights are ignored or not taken into account. period

 

[foreigngirl]

Opinions?

yes, he should have a say. If its a stable relationship 2 people need to make a decision.

If its one of them "pregnant teen" thing - I think the parents should be the ones to decide

 

[Bikini Mod]

right ive clamed down somewhat now.

Breathe in,
Breathe out. LOL!

agreed with what you said, i guess i was taking it form my point of view (as in been married for quite a while etc etc), if my wife did that and i didn't have a say or my say didn't matter i would be very upset and angry (in an upset way, not an annoyed way). yes the women goes through it all and has the problems and issues that arise from it, i guess i get wound up because of the lack of equal rights in asmuch as a joint choice.

not sure if that makes sense or not?

When the couple is married and is in a loving relationship the matter is not so simple. An unplanned pregnancy in a marriage can lead to disastrous circumstances if the couple can not agree on whether or not to continue. Think about that child who has a mother that never wanted it but was forced in essence to keep it. Would you want such a mother for YOUR child?

My husband is quite a bit older than I and already has two sets of children from previous marriages. My circumstances with my own children are terribly painful. I am on the cusp of being too old to conceive but it could still happen. My health would be terribly compromised and I really dont WANT a newborn but because of how my children have been kept from me I would have a very hard time terminating a pregnancy. My husband would be equally emotionally devastated to have to terminate a pregnancy if I were to become pregnant but ultimately he knows that it would be my decision.

All rational thought would be to terminate... but we would be VERY emotionally torn.

Ultimately though, he knows that it would fall on me as I would be the one to be pregnant and be the primarily caretaker.

I think I would die of a broken heart were I to be faced with such a decision.